[Agony_Aunt]

My boyfriend at the time, who I trusted and loved, had some pics of me and I had some of him. When we split I deleted his pics, obviously I didn't want them anymore. A few weeks after we split, I found out he had shown my pics to all his friends And said I was a and easy..
It was his friends who told me about the pics, they said they thought he was a dk for doing that though. They got to his laptop one day though and deleted the pics for me.

I had trusted this fella as my boyfriend, but that just shows you can't trust anyone when it comes to these kind of pics.

[collegegirl2010]

Girls, sometimes will do things, and regret it.. And, boys will pressure for more, my opinion? You stop talking to him full stop... 5 days, and he's talking about sex? 5 days and he's seen a photo of you? 5 days and he has no idea who you are personally, only physically. You made a mistake, he's coning you, cut off communication...

PS: You didn't answer how you met him? Over the net?

PSS: I'm closing your other thread as it's the same as this one...

Thanks...and I take a class with him...Thanks for reassuring me, I really thought I was just over reacting...

[Ashlee T.]

Now days, him showing the pic to his friends would be the least of your worries. Sending pics like that to a guy opens up the doors for him to post them online for ALL to see.

You're young and naive, and you're learning. BUT, don't forget that you are an adult, and the only person that's gonna truly take care of you is you, so watch out for yourself. Any guy that asks you to send him naked pics on text is NO guy you need to be giving your time to.

Let it be a lesson learned and make sure you don't make the same mistake twice.

[chrysdior]

Stop talking to him and here's my expierence

I've sent guys photos before. But if I wasnt sure on the guy and to just shut them up I sent t hem a side view, with my hand covering my breasts, that way I didnt have to worry about my photo being exposed, there was nothing to see. It just shut them up for the time, long enough for me to say "See ya!" Without having him say "you're over reacting" or having to stick up for myself. I hate having to defend myself when I know I'm right, and you were right in this instance of NOT sending him photos to begin with but you bailed on yourself and sent him one. What was the photo of exactly? How bad was it? Does it show your face? Is anything nudely exposed? Or were you basically just being a tease with your parts covered up? If you answered yes to last question, then I dont think you really have anything to worry about.

[chrysdior]

Sorry my post posted twice because it said there was osmething wrong with it and I tried posting again and it took a really long time then toldme it was a duplicate. Sorry about that. I do not know how to delete it.

[collegegirl2010]

I've sent guys photos before. But if I wasnt sure on the guy and to just shut them up I sent t hem a side view, with my hand covering my breasts, that way I didnt have to worry about my photo being exposed, there was nothing to see. It just shut them up for the time, long enough for me to say "See ya!" Without having him say "you're over reacting" or having to stick up for myself. I hate having to defend myself when I know I'm right, and you were right in this instance of NOT sending him photos to begin with but you bailed on yourself and sent him one. What was the photo of exactly? How bad was it? Does it show your face? Is anything nudely exposed? Or were you basically just being a tease with your parts covered up? If you answered yes to last question, then I dont think you really have anything to worry about.

It was a picture of my vagina and no it didnt show my face...my vagina was fully exposed...

[tesoro]

Thanks, but I kind of already sent him a photo...but I talk to him about it, and how I feel he only wants sex. We got into a big argument and neither of us are talking to each other...now what I'm really worried about is the fact that he might expose my picture

CG2010, Don't let him manipulate you any more. You already sent a photo? Well, it's done. There's nothing you can do about it now. What you can do is forgive yourself and stop letting him get control over you. Believe in yourself. You are special without a guy's approval. He's not treating you with respect. Don't allow it to continue. I agree with CW. Cut off all communication and move on with your life. You are probably meeting a lot of new people in college. Let things happen naturally...don't force them. Enjoy your friends and you will know when you meet the right guy. This guys is a user.

[collegegirl2010]

CG2010, Don't let him manipulate you any more. You already sent a photo? Well, it's done. There's nothing you can do about it now. What you can do is forgive yourself and stop letting him get control over you. Believe in yourself. You are special without a guy's approval. He's not treating you with respect. Don't allow it to continue. I agree with CW. Cut off all communication and move on with your life. You are probably meeting a lot of new people in college. Let things happen naturally...don't force them. Enjoy your friends and you will know when you meet the right guy. This guys is a user.

Thanks...and my sister told me to leave him alone, so I am...And my sister and I were also saying that we don't believe he's a virgin, I think he just told me he was a virgin because I said I was one and he's trying to get me to trust him. But thank you, I think its over between us...

[WildChild]

I've sent guys photos before. But if I wasnt sure on the guy and to just shut them up I sent t hem a side view, with my hand covering my breasts, that way I didnt have to worry about my photo being exposed, there was nothing to see. It just shut them up for the time, long enough for me to say "See ya!" Without having him say "you're over reacting" or having to stick up for myself.

No No No
Ladies, this is just feeding the fire. DO NOT send photos to anyone who is not your long term, love of your life, and even then think twice because next month he may not be.

[Guest]

Don't send photos of yourself please. You have to be careful doing that sort of thing to someone you've known for years!!! Wait until you are ready for sex and then show him your body naturally.