[ALPHA_MALE]

Hey. So yesterday i found out that my girlfriend of 3 years went over to her ex-boyfriends apartment. Then she also told me that they had hung out twice prior to that but she swears up and down that nothing is going on between them. Is she a (edit) for doing that or did i call her that for no reason?

Thanks.

[LanaBear]

You can have whatever friends you want. Anything less would be overly controling and no one likes that.

Seems to be you called her a witch for no reason. Since you posted this on another thread with close to the same circumstances, I'm assuming this would be the same since the rules are reversed?

[ALPHA_MALE]

Seems to be you called her a witch for no reason. Since you posted this on another thread with close to the same circumstances, I'm assuming this would be the same since the rules are reversed?

Yes and i agree with you. But in the thread i posted that in, it was something about a long distance relationship with the absence of seeing the "ex" on multiple occasions.

What i mean by my post is that its frequent. Im fine with a friendship, as everyone should be, but hanging out on a regular basis seems like she is being a *female dog*.

[LanaBear]

Thank you for clarifying.

Do I find it odd that she would frequent her ex's residence? Yeah, probably. What is her reasoning for doing so, anything other than just "hanging out"?

[ALPHA_MALE]

Thank you for clarifying.

Do I find it odd that she would frequent her ex's residence? Yeah, probably. What is her reasoning for doing so, anything other than just "hanging out"?

He told her that he had a death in the family and he was going through a really hard time. Bunch of . One of the oldest lines in the Guy's Book of How to get Woman's Sympathy.

[LanaBear]

Did she know the relative? That he or she actually existed?

I mean, what can you do at this point? You either believe her or you don't... 3 years of a relationship. Has she ever done anything to make you not believe her and that she is telling the truth? Is there a reason you do not believe her? Do you know if her ex wants her back after 3 years?

[ALPHA_MALE]

I also failed to mention that my gf and i had a cenversation about relationships and she says she used to be into "noncommited dating". Sketchy. Im sick of it.

[ALPHA_MALE]

Did she know the relative? That he or she actually existed?

I mean, what can you do at this point? You either believe her or you don't... 3 years of a relationship. Has she ever done anything to make you not believe her and that she is telling the truth? Is there a reason you do not believe her? Do you know if her ex wants her back after 3 years?

No she didnt know the relative. He is obviously exagerating.

[Guest]

Do I understand this correctly? You've been in a relationship with this woman for three years and you care that she's seen an ex ? Really? The woman that I love sees an ex of hers all the time...so? There's a reason he's an ex.... Maybe I'm missing something that needs further explanation... I better wait to find out before commenting further.

[WildChild]

In three years time have you agreed to have a committed relationship? To be exclusive? Have you had any reason in the past to think she still attracted to this guy or involved with him in any way?
Either you trust someone or you don't.
If you trust her let go of it, if you don't trust her, let go of her.