[horsyluvr]

That's true too. And I understand there may be things he doesn't want me to know right now. He has stated "I just want to make sure things are right." He has shown me his property, the volunteer fire dept he's with, where he works (he lives in a house on the fish farm), and as I said I met some of his friends. He said he wants to do the friends thing first but I've never heard of friends cuddling and such.

[Something_Awesome]

He may want to be just friends... He needs the cuddling because it helps him cope with the breakup and/or he misses it.

I totaly endorse kitty's second paragraph of her post. She pretty much nailed it.

[horsyluvr]

If that's the case then why would he tell me he's over the ex? / I'm prob just going to ride this out as is and see what happens. I will wait.

[jen1447]

Don't overanalyze! Think of it this way - it's gonna be what it's gonna be whether you worry about it or not. Just relax and enjoy the ride.

[horsyluvr]

True. Over analyzing gets me no where lol. Thank you

[horsyluvr]

I unintentionally sent him spinning. One night he facetimed me and I just got out of the pool. All he saw was my face of course but ever since then he's been bringing kissing up. He just admitted to me he doesn't know how to act (I asked him why the sudden change of mind).

[jen1447]

I think it's kissy time.

[HW_Bloom]

Go in for the kiss, girl! As for over-analzying, it happens to me too. But at some point I just get tired and let it go. I think eventually you will do the same. And I wouldn't really think that he needs a friend. Maybe he just always acts like that.

[horsyluvr]

I must've sent him spinning pretty good because we had a date today and he kissed me a few times I can tell he is still holding back but I'm just happy that it happened lol

[jns]

I must've sent him spinning pretty good because we had a date today and he kissed me a few times I can tell he is still holding back but I'm just happy that it happened lol

Best wishes on things progressing as you want them to.