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    What kind of a girlfriend do men/guys want?

  • Hahaha.... wow. broad question.
    • hot
    • sexually free
    • independant
    • gives him his own space
    • lets him do things his own way
    • doesnt nag
    • isn't jealous of female friends
    • doesnt set about character assassinating his friends
    • Likes giving blowjobs
    • likes swallowing
    • considerate
    • not selfish
    • capable of looking after her own mental health
    • knows when she's being dumb/hormonal
    • good taste in music
    • has hobbies beside shopping and gossiping
    • a good cook (seriously, why are men better cooks these days?)
    • not pushy, don't go for marriage straight away
    • up for giving anal sex a go
    • long hair
    • NOT FAT
    • funny
    • intelligent
    • can decide on something to do instead of always making the man decide
    • doesn't need gifts/money etc etc
    • understands that we need time away from you with our friends
    • doesn't muscle her way into everything that he does
    • got a hot friend who's up for a threesome
    • doesn't want to live together
    • doesn't want to be a kept woman
    • isn't a clean freak
    • doesn't nag
    • doesn't nag
    • doesn't nag
    • capable of being really nasty and spiteful, if needs be
    • someone who doesnt just ***** about someone if they dont like them, they tell them to their face
    • someone who doesn't play boring pretty/power games with their friends
    • a nice tan
    • clean
    Obviously a lot of this is quite subjective, but aspire to those and you can't go far wrong.

    Haha

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    • Can you tell me Anon, What do you have to offer a woman, that she would want...

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      • Mmmm...
        Hahaha.... wow. broad question.

        And as a woman?
        • hot
        • Hot dresser for himself, and for you on those special occasions
        • sexually free
        • No boundaries -
        • independent
        • In dependant but shares his time as well - as committed relationships go
        • gives him his own space
        • Gives her, her space but is conscious of a fair - equal, quality time
        • lets him do things his own way
        • Except what really bugs her, then there's compromise
        • doesn't nag
        • Accepts constructive criticism where warranted but generally, is a free spirit so has no room for long wasted arguement
        • isn't jealous of female friends
        • Isn't jealous of male friends, understands the "limits" of communication with his female friends/visa versa
        • doesn't set about character assassinating his friends
        • Accepts constructive criticism and allows a woman's thoughts on matters if valid, and speaks his mind, is true to himself
        • Likes giving blow jobs
        • Loves being intimate accepting and giving - equality
        • likes swallowing
        • Does expect swallowing, but is honored that she tried
        • considerate
        • Considerate, and communicative
        • not selfish
        • Ah i agree
        • capable of looking after her own mental health
        • Is capable of seeing people as being human, with issues and is there for her if she has an issue, visa versa
        • knows when she's being dumb/hormonal
        • Understands a woman, her cycles, moods and knows how to laugh it of and make her laugh over it as well
        • good taste in music
        • Independent tastes in what ever they desire, with possible at least one that they both like making driving easy....
        • has hobbies beside shopping and gossiping
        • Understands a woman loves shopping/gossiping and has passion in hobbies as well
        • a good cook (seriously, why are men better cooks these days?)
        • Understanding equality in the kitchen if both work, at least a couple times a week would be good, ( seriously, I'm a bloody good cook).
        • not pushy, don't go for marriage straight away
        • Doesn't make me feel claustrophobic, in my face, and walks beside me, not behind or in front, goes with the flow
        • up for giving anal sex a go
        • Is passionate in the bedroom, adventurous, has no boundaries
        • long hair
        • Take pride in his looks - 3 day growth on weekends, rugged
        • NOT FAT
        • Broad shoulders, nice butt,(who cares about weight), is intelligent to the hilt, hilarious, makes me laugh, good in bed, mental attraction beats physical hands down in the end
        • funny
        • Yep, hilarious
        • intelligent
        • Yep, agree
        • can decide on something to do instead of always making the man decide
        • Is independent in thoughts but knows your favourite places and just takes you there, or to his on occasions, and on other's asking, or suggesting
        • doesn't need gifts/money etc etc
        • Loves surprises, out of the norm, out of the blue and gives back as well, not necessarily commercialised ie) Valentines Day, a single rose will do.
        • understands that we need time away from you with our friends
        • Independent and trustworthy and allows you to maintain your Independence where friends are concerned with trust
        • doesn't muscle her way into everything that he does
        • That would be independent, own creativity, space
        • got a hot friend who's up for a threesome
        • Open minded for sure - but not going there on that one, to dangerous
        • doesn't want to live together
        • Wants to live together before marriage, check it all out, see the full compatibility, if not, ( you leave don't you ANON) and know that long term it won't work! So definately a plus if you have.
        • doesn't want to be a kept woman
        • Loves to spoil a woman from time to time ( not on going ) but other than that, a REAL MAN'S MAN, a slight bit of arrogance and a slight bit of the unknown
        • isn't a clean freak
        • Loves a woman whom takes pride in herself and surrounds but can also let things go, for more important things, together, catch up another time
        • doesn't nag
        • Did that bit
        • doesn't nag
        • Gee you certainly went out with the wrong woman -
        • doesn't nag
        • capable of being really nasty and spiteful, if needs be
        • Loves a constructive argument - mmm and loves to make up after, acknowledges a passionate woman will speak her mind regardless
        • someone who doesn't just ***** about someone if they don't like them, they tell them to their face
        • Honest and down to earth, tells things as they are in a constructive manner,
        • someone who doesn't play boring pretty/power games with their friends
        • Has his own identity and is happy with whom he is
        • a nice tan
        • Has broad shoulders, strong arms, good hands, superb kisser and loves his manhood being loved
        • clean
        • Did that one

        Obviously a lot of this is quite subjective, but aspire to those and you can't go far wrong.

        Aspire to those and you have taken full control over some one's life wanting them to be what you want them to be?

        Where's the individuality in that? lol.

        Wish lists are exactly that and then you fall in love and go ah, forget that one, na, don't need that one anymore, ah ok, i get that, and a different list transpires, one of acceptance i believe. Or you mature and don't bloody need all those things you just listed?

        Poor girl....

        Simple: Intelligent, witty, charming, free spirited, loves conversation, communication, is great in the bedroom, lets you be you, has pride, and works...

        (Smile)



        Haha
        PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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        • Hmm, I guess this will be like writing a personal add, but ok, even though I see a bit of a sharp tinge to the post - seems like I've got myself another fan.
          • Good looking
          • In shape, defined body
          • Good sense of humour
          • perceptive
          • intelligent
          • deep
          • philosophical
          • give amazing advice
          • supportive
          • sexually free and generous
          • I can always turn someones mood around
          • creative
          • good at handiman stuff
          • protective
          • an amazing cook
          • never intrude on partners life, freedom is essential
          • independant
          • not selfish
          • not jealous of male friends
          • will never tell partner what to do, ever
          • good taste in music
          • interesting hobbies
          • long hair (subjective)
          • hygenic
          • a nice tan
          • adventurous
          • confident
          • interesting
          • a bit different from everyone else
          • remember significant dates
          • etc.

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          • Originally posted by anonymouswhitefemale View Post
            Hahaha.... wow. broad question.
            • hot
            • sexually free
            • independant
            • gives him his own space
            • lets him do things his own way
            • doesnt nag
            • isn't jealous of female friends
            • doesnt set about character assassinating his friends
            • Likes giving blowjobs
            • likes swallowing
            • considerate
            • not selfish
            • capable of looking after her own mental health
            • knows when she's being dumb/hormonal
            • good taste in music
            • has hobbies beside shopping and gossiping
            • a good cook (seriously, why are men better cooks these days?)
            • not pushy, don't go for marriage straight away
            • up for giving anal sex a go
            • long hair
            • NOT FAT
            • funny
            • intelligent
            • can decide on something to do instead of always making the man decide
            • doesn't need gifts/money etc etc
            • understands that we need time away from you with our friends
            • doesn't muscle her way into everything that he does
            • got a hot friend who's up for a threesome
            • doesn't want to live together
            • doesn't want to be a kept woman
            • isn't a clean freak
            • doesn't nag
            • doesn't nag
            • doesn't nag
            • capable of being really nasty and spiteful, if needs be
            • someone who doesnt just ***** about someone if they dont like them, they tell them to their face
            • someone who doesn't play boring pretty/power games with their friends
            • a nice tan
            • clean
            Obviously a lot of this is quite subjective, but aspire to those and you can't go far wrong.

            Haha
            Very off topic but a girl doesn't want a narrow minded self centered *****s hole either.
            There is a method to my madness ........ I just haven't found it yet.

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            • Originally posted by anonymouswhitefemale View Post
              Hmm, I guess this will be like writing a personal add, but ok, even though I see a bit of a sharp tinge to the post - seems like I've got myself another fan.
              • Good looking
              • In shape, defined body
              • Good sense of humour
              • perceptive
              • intelligent
              • deep
              • philosophical
              • give amazing advice
              • supportive
              • sexually free and generous
              • I can always turn someones mood around
              • creative
              • good at handiman stuff
              • protective
              • an amazing cook
              • never intrude on partners life, freedom is essential
              • independant
              • not selfish
              • not jealous of male friends
              • will never tell partner what to do, ever
              • good taste in music
              • interesting hobbies
              • long hair (subjective)
              • hygenic
              • a nice tan
              • adventurous
              • confident
              • interesting
              • a bit different from everyone else
              • remember significant dates
              • etc.
              Okay, if i was 22 to 26, i'd go out with you now.....

              CW

              Don't know who the self riteous male was above this guy, i reckon he walked from a wrong relationship and was maybe venting of what he didn't want next time.

              Now this guy!!!!!




              I've always been your fan Anon.....

              You have that intelligence, fun, witty, sarcastic, dominant, tell it how it is, qualities.

              But your wish list was well.... A huge wish list for a woman to be "for you", as i said, this guy is so much better. lol.
              PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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              • Anon, I honestly didnt mean to sound sharp. I just wondered since u seem to know what every man wants, what type of man you were. Atleast you are honest, thats more than I can say for ALOT of men I have known.

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                • By the way, my initial post was relatively tongue in cheek, since it was a dumb question, and not to be taken too seriously, if you're getting offended by it.

                  And fallen, you'd be suprised, women always want to go out with an arsehole. Anyway, I'm actually very open minded. And even though I might seem self centered, I actually place other peoples needs above mine in the grand scheme of things.... Aaaanyway, calm down - gees, everyone's out for me today, haha.

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                  • Originally posted by anonymouswhitefemale View Post
                    And fallen, you'd be suprised, women always want to go out with an arsehole. Anyway, I'm actually very open minded. And even though I might seem self centered, I actually place other peoples needs above mine in the grand scheme of things.... Aaaanyway, calm down - gees, everyone's out for me today, haha.
                    Nothing personal, just making sure you knew what was going through my mind when I read it. As CW says I'm a fan too.

                    Everyone has their idea of what a perfect mate would be, and while we women may be content in our dream worlds you've accused us of living in we'll let you know if we find your girl.
                    There is a method to my madness ........ I just haven't found it yet.

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                    • Anon, I agree the question wasnt the brightest I have seen. I wasnt taking it personally, it didnt offend me at all. I actually get a kick out of some of the things u say, ammusing

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                      • In my opinion...men want a girl is easy to be with. Not to be confused with easy to get in bed. I mean easy going, relaxed, spontaneous.

                        Maggie Anne
                        Maggie Anne

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                        • Wow Anon. U really know what u want from a woman. Ur answer is honest & straightfoward. Do u know that it's very very didfficult to find a girl who's not nagging. If u find one just keep her bcoz you'll never find another

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                          • I do know it's difficult to find a woman who doesn't nag, which is why I listed it about 4 times. It drives men crazy, yet all women do it. I was hoping maybe people who read this might understand how unattractive it is, and that it's basically next to abuse.

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                            • Define nag....

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