[mmtgal]

In my opinion I think the best way to stop your gf from nagging is to identify the things that make her do it. If it's because of some of the things you do then try to limit them or stop doing them if possible then occurence of nagging will also dimish, simple as that......

[Uneeklyme]

Un compramising is not an attractive quality.
open minded and accepting is.
nagging isnt but neither is feeling the need to nag.
Security and stability are
arrogance and selfishness are not.
Confidence is.
clueless is not but common sense is.
Intelligence...oh yes and a sense of humor doesnt hurt.
Hypocritical and overbearing are not.
Understanding is.
Jealousy and possesiveness are so not.


Just some examples. I believe there has to be much give and take and you only get as good as you give.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Un compramising is not an attractive quality.
open minded and accepting is.
nagging isnt but neither is feeling the need to nag.
Security and stability are
arrogance and selfishness are not.
Confidence is.
clueless is not but common sense is.
Intelligence...oh yes and a sense of humor doesnt hurt.
Hypocritical and overbearing are not.
Understanding is.
Jealousy and possesiveness are so not.


Just some examples. I believe there has to be much give and take and you only get as good as you give.

Compromising " is" a an attractive quality? The rest, good for you, totally agree, could add but tireeeeeeddddd...

CW

[Uneeklyme]

Compromising " is" a an attractive quality? The rest, good for you, totally agree, could add but tireeeeeeddddd...

CW

In my opinion yes. In the sense of I am willing to hear what your saying or feeling and lets see what we can do about that. Not in the hang you out to dry put in a compramising position way.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

In my opinion yes. In the sense of I am willing to hear what your saying or feeling and lets see what we can do about that. Not in the hang you out to dry put in a compromising position way.

Have to say, we think alike, "bad luck suffer".....

Independence, aloofness to a degree, assertive when required, definite understanding of compromise but I'll listen, we'll discuss , not yes sir, what ever you want......

My thoughts.

CW

[Uneeklyme]

Have to say, we think alike, "bad luck suffer".....

Independence, aloofness to a degree, assertive when required, definite understanding of compromise but I'll listen, we'll discuss , not yes sir, what ever you want......

My thoughts.

CW

absolutely. Love your posts. Your very calming and objective. Rational.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Well your logical and you don't back down against your beliefs......

Actually that's a strange thing that you said, ( i do thank you) but not needed, but i actually went that way 5 months ago, i have always been a "deep thinker" don't get me wrong, but "calm"? Na who me? That came from getting in tune with me, "sorry" loving every part of me in all forms.... Hense came that constant sensuality well that was drawn into the picture.

Way of track...

But sensuality gees, lets be a bit human, something else i have discovered since being here... Who is CW,

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Well your logical and you don't back down against your beliefs......

Actually that's a strange thing that you said, ( i do thank you) but not needed, but i actually went that way 5 months ago, i have always been a "deep thinker" don't get me wrong, but "calm"? Na who me? That came from getting in tune with me, "sorry" loving every part of me in all forms.... Hence came that constant sensuality well that was drawn into the picture.

Way of track...

But sensuality gees, lets be a bit human, something else i have discovered since being here... Who is CW,

I love wearing no underwear under cloths (shock?) don't care. In a nice way... lol...

What is more sexy for a woman but for her to know and her alone, except when she wants to divulge to her man, that she has stepped out naked? Apart from the dress she has on, and make-up, hair... Is he visualising a "locked toilet alone " not cubical?

As i said, of the track but not really where you mind is, shall i post this on my Visualisation Thread?

Na.... some will skip this thread and not see it, lol...

Takes one to know one what ever that one is, and i can see so many personalities, but all in common? FUN natured, or commutative, seeking, or giving....

CW

[Uneeklyme]

ok...how about secure in who you are. I like that you choose to debate in a rational calm manner and dont seem to feel the need to justify your beliefs with nastiness or attacks. I am working on it. Focus on the objective and all that. My sarcasm tends to get the best of me. =)

Underwear? whats that? LOL
allergic to something in the elastic bands so I just dont bother. Yes, for very different reasons than you might have but have to agree with you that steppin out sometimes all dolled and dressed knowing your au natural does have its perks.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Now if i go into shock it's due to the un-expected? So, let's write that again because for some reason it appears you took offense, and that i can't work out, is that that, "some say i have foot in mouth decease?"

Well your logical and you don't back down against your beliefs...... (Not saying you don't think with feelings, just your answers ( to me) are clever thought out, logical).... And, if you have a "passion" you stick by that passion now i have learnt that, that can only come with "feelings", passionate....


Actually that's a strange thing that you said, ( i do thank you) but not needed,

Who doesn't like compliments, thank you... But, i am strong on people knowing that i 1) enjoy it 2) try to help 3) appreciate a compliment but well, as it's not why i am here, it's okay to feel a tad emabarresed.

but i actually went that way 5 months ago, i have always been a "deep thinker" don't get me wrong, but "calm"? Na who me? That came from getting in tune with me, "sorry" loving every part of me in all forms.... Hence came that constant sensuality well that was drawn into the picture.

True, my Mother's personality bugger, fortunately, only 25%, so a bit intollerant, so "calm"? I have truly worked on myself and i am extremely calm, was a good % but worked on it being deeper... And yep, love myself, sorry, but not " in love" just happy. So you already know from posts/threads i am always feeling sensual.

Way of track...

Me in what the subject was....

But sensuality gees, lets be a bit human, something else i have discovered since being here... Who is CW,

See, i am also OK with telling what i'm thinking feeling, no one really knows my name, me...

I love wearing no underwear under cloths (shock?) don't care. In a nice way... lol...

Therefore, telling a trade secret without concern, sharing...

What is more sexy for a woman but for her to know and her alone, except when she wants to divulge to her man, that she has stepped out naked? Apart from the dress she has on, and make-up, hair... Is he visualising a "locked toilet alone " not cubical?

As i said, of the track but not really where you mind is, shall i post this on my Visualisation Thread?

Gave me food for thought.

Na.... some will skip this thread and not see it, lol...

Takes one to know one what ever that one is, and i can see so many personalities, but all in common? FUN natured, or commutative, seeking, or giving....

I'm logic, with feelings, and agree on a lot of what you say, so takes one to know one....

Personalities, mmmm, i'm sticking to that, across the board as the Forum goes, nothing about you.

So?

lol.

CW