[Jack101]

Thanks for help gals I do feel better

[atskitty2]

I think what you're describing is actually a woman lacking confidence and having low self esteem. She needs the contsant validation and self promotion because she's not really comfortable in her own skin. It often comes off as conceit and obnoxious self absorption, but it sounds like she's just really unhappy with herself.

People that are confident don't need to make sure others are aware of all the attention they get.

As for your behavior, I think BD is right...you were just enamored and let it get to you it happens.

[Ashlee T.]

Being an alpha female is one thing, but it doesn't mean a woman is conceited or cocky or full of herself. The women you're referring to sounds pretty conceited or at least enjoys portraying that image.

Put two guys side by side: 1 is handsome but thinks he's ugly, feels like a woman is doing him a favor by even looking at him, shows his lack of confidence in desperation. The other guy is not very attractive physically, but acts like he is gods gift to women. Who will most women go for? Why?

In my experience, they will go for guy #2. Eventually, they'll wish they hadn't, but they were attracted to their perception of his confidence. You know the saying "If you don't believe in yourself, no one else will either!"

[Jack101]

One thing, i m not sure this means anything but let me share with you

She did act like an alpha female, but she was acting waaaay full of herself. When we started chatting in the beggining, we were talking about how men approach her and well she sent over 100 chats of random guys with her, its not like i asked to see it, she just sent them straight away. And she is always talking about how can she have anybody she wishes for.

[Jack101]

everybody likes the validation

getting texts or likes on FB (if you're on FB) feeds people's egos
makes people feel like they matter

I know someone that would get upset if they liked someone's FB posts but didn't get likes back from them
texting/social media/cell phones can become addicting

could it have been anybody on the other end of the texts? or was it her in particular?

Her in particular, even when she sent me some regular videos of her laughing or saying my name, she seemed so pleasent(spell), i knew nothing major would happen, we would only have sex, but spending time with her would really be cool. I guess i was wrong afterall

[amy40]

She was a really cool person through texts. .

everybody likes the validation

getting texts or likes on FB (if you're on FB) feeds people's egos
makes people feel like they matter

I know someone that would get upset if they liked someone's FB posts but didn't get likes back from them
texting/social media/cell phones can become addicting

could it have been anybody on the other end of the texts? or was it her in particular?

[Jack101]

You were super into her. It's like being at a job interview for a job you really want. Sometimes you nail it and other times you ramble on until they think you're a blithering idiot. :-D

If she's an alpha female, very confident, they can be very intimidating and also have very high expectations. That ironically also increases their sex appeal to men while also making them more difficult to attain.

Obviously, if you acted unlike yourself it is because you were nervous and intimidated. Don't sweat it. It doesn't sound like she's a super awesome catch anyhow.

**** you re good at explaining
And yes, she is quite an alpha female like you say. And yeah, she isnt that "super" in person. When we were texting, sure i was really turned on when she started about sex etc but i really liked to text with her about some other stuff, even when she called me some names, it really sounds pleasing. She was a really cool person through texts. In person, not so much to be honest.

[Ashlee T.]

You were super into her. It's like being at a job interview for a job you really want. Sometimes you nail it and other times you ramble on until they think you're a blithering idiot. :-D

If she's an alpha female, very confident, they can be very intimidating and also have very high expectations. That ironically also increases their sex appeal to men while also making them more difficult to attain.

Obviously, if you acted unlike yourself it is because you were nervous and intimidated. Don't sweat it. It doesn't sound like she's a super awesome catch anyhow.

[Jack101]

But one thing i dont understand, why did i act like a kid? I mean dont get me wrong, i do admit it, i somehow did feel that but why?
I am not a shy person at all, this isnt my first time being on a "date" with an older women. I was very talkable(if thats the word)and openable(spell) with her, i even talked more for ffs. But why did i feel like a little kid in front of her? Why?

[Jack101]

I understand
What would your advice be if somehow she texts me?