ok i think i have made a huuuuuge mistake....
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Oh dear what was it?
1. Listening to other "women" and not your intuition?
2. Being girly and flirting and being attracted to someone who was paying you attention only to realise that your man actually treated you the way you really wanted and this guy has done something now? Or you have?
3. Jumped the gun too quickly in your decision?
What...
Just let me say you are human and it's normal to make mistakes, can you fix it though.
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i would say jumped the gun too quickly...i do really like the other guy, but i think it was more of a case of wanting what u cant have...because now all i can think about is my ex...sorry u are probably all fed of of me whining and i know that i have brought all of this on myself
i miss my ex already...maybe its just becoz i am used to him being there...
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mmm... your not whinning....
If you are missing him that is because that relationship was "real" what you are dealing with at the moment is fantasy.
WHY?
Cause you don't know this other guy at all, what colour socks he prefers, what his favourite colour is, how he treats women, you...
You'll work out what to do but if i was you I wouldn't make any moves on this other guy until you do.
I just wouldn't.
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welcome...
to being human. dont be too hard on yourself, OK?i would say jumped the gun too quickly...i do really like the other guy, but i think it was more of a case of wanting what u cant have...because now all i can think about is my ex...sorry u are probably all fed of of me whining and i know that i have brought all of this on myself i miss my ex already...maybe its just becoz i am used to him being there...Comment
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sorry...i dont know what to do, and when ever i feel confused i just write down what i am thinking on here...although nothing has happened between me and the other guy since the first kiss i think it has kind of given him the wrong impression from me breaking up with my bf...everyone in the house is making comments...like they dont mean it in a bad way, its just banter, but everytime they imply something about me and this other guy it makes me feel so cheap...like that they would think that so soon after i broke up with my boyfriend...i know i have brought that on myself but still...just feels rubbish.Comment
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