[sourpuss]

I know you're right. I'm 90% sure he won't make the effort, so I just need to start to be ok with that and move on.
I hate starting over though. Maybe because I've only started over with things in life because my current situation was bad. I think I need to start 'starting over' more when things are positive so it's not such a negative thing.
Heck, I don't know. I just hate that unresolved feeling, but gotta suck it up. You're right.

[WildChild]

Can you email him? Suggest that he can buy out your part in these goodies? If you don't have a truck to haul them that would make sense. That or sell them and split the money.

[sourpuss]

He doesn't really use his computer, has checked his email for months, and his computer is at my house. lol ugh
He has no money after being laid off this winter. But I suppose if I took everything, we'd be close to even after all the money I've spent on him. I just hate being like that. Even if I did keep everything we had together, I'd still have to buy a truck to use it. I guess I got myself in kind of a pickle with all this.