[CHANDLERS WISH]

pfft childish.

Catchy word isn't it HD? LOL'S...

[Goodgirl93]

I think the less time you spend with a person "in-person" the more things like adding a friend on a social networking site can take its toll and lead to jealousies and insecurities. Because its kind of an equal playing field... like if he was holding you every day... some joe bob adding you and saying hi would like cause him to shrug and move along with his day... but if you guys rarely see each other and online is your primary source of contact... it changes everything. The slightest wink from soemone can seem like a sign of disprespect etc...

I think it would not be wise for you to be this guys ' friend with benefit's'.... You don't seem like the kind of girl that would be happy detaching your emotions from a physical relationship and thats all friends with benefits situations are. The sex is so empty and pointless, masturbation is superior to sleeping with someone you have no feelings for or no connection to.

Your guy here sounds real immature, like you added a friend so now he has to one up you, and one up you and one up you... imagine if he heard a rumor you were with someone else what he'd resort to in order to one-up you, when maybe you havent even done anything deserving of that sort of reaction. You do soemthing he doesn't like and he's got a 'i'll show you!!!' attitude... pfft childish.

He was just a jealous mess and it got sooooo much worse during the break up.I have added two more ppl since then,cause now,i can add people and not have to answer to him.But both times ive added ppl.he asks me about it,then goes and adds a bunch of girls.just alone today,he has added 13 girls to his myspace,all because i added one guy.and he does it cause he knows it bothers me.Its childish,and i hate it,but its the only way we talk now,cause he wont come see me or talk to me face to face.

[Goodgirl93]

Stop using my word

Sounds to me that he is a child, he's disrespectful, a control freak and no where near good enough for one of my off spring

When someone poses a question you can bet your butt that they "actually" mean it, especially when the cover it with "only joking"...

He is enjoying that your "his" still, knowing that you cry.. He's enjoying "tormenting you", over what you see, if he had a heart he'd pm people on My-Space don't you think?

I think, that as the closest thing was "his hand" that he's out there looking for a bit more, whilst wanting to keep you there as his, so that he can control and hopefully, be "the one" at some point....

I remember your relationship with Newwhere, where at "least" on the surface it appeared that he felt deeply for you... He would never have done any of that huh...

Take that, that was a learning lesson for you of what you deserve, even if that was not meant to be.. and don't settle for this type of reel you in, send you away, reel you in, send you away..

Tell him he's a jerk, immature, you didn't lie, quite simply put, his childish antics of jealousy made you keep something to yourself, there's a big difference.

CW

Ty mum,u always know what to say

It makes sense that hes just keeping me there for selfish reasons.he is actually a virgin too,and we were planning on our first time being with eachother.but he never got sexual til after we broke up,and now hes wanting it bad.idky.He knows i cry,but if i tell him something he is doing that not right,somehow he turns it around on me,and then i end upset and he get angry and ignores me.
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Yea,newhere was just about the best thing that ever happened to me,and i miss him still.We still keep in touch,but guys like him dont come around often.

[WildChild]

Well now you have a standard to judge from. He set the bar high for you because you deserve the best. Take that gift and honor it but not letting or keeping jerks in your life.

[Texinator]

Remember Gigi: Never settle for less than you deserve.

[WildChild]

We could all do with remembering that

[Goodgirl93]

Remember Gigi: Never settle for less than you deserve.

I dont really know wat that is anymore.Im not saying i dont deserve good,im just saying idk what i deserve. lol

[tesoro]

You need to be your own best friend, Gigi. Take yourself out of the situation and read your thread as if it was another friend's problem. What advice would you give her? That's what you deserve too - only the best. Don't let the nice parts of this guy stand out over his jealous, controlling behaviour. If he is acting this way over something like FB or MS, just imagine what would happen if you two ran into a "real life" issue. He can't handle it. He's too immature. Find someone kind, loving and mature who doesn't put you through a constant cycle of anger, abuse, apology. I know this from experience and only wish that I had learned it earlier in my life. Be good to yourself.

[Texinator]

I dont really know wat that is anymore.Im not saying i dont deserve good,im just saying idk what i deserve. lol

Someone who takes an interest not only in your body but especially in your personality. Someone with whom you can connect on a deep emotional level. Someone who is willing to communicate with you in a calm and honest manner whenever any issues arise.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

but he never got sexual til after we broke up,and now hes wanting it bad.

Tex? That means he's thinking with the other head huh.. Viewing on the chance he missed, taking something away from Gigi, that he wants no one else to take away, spoilt brat, "OH NO" I'll miss out on being the first, after all he suggested "friends with benefits", only joking NOT.....

Remember Gigi, what you deserve is THE BEST... Not heartache, of OH NO, I gave and he walked.....This guy walked and now wants it, as he missed out on taking it, as you both discussed being the first......

Don't fall for it sweet.

CW