[Brokenwings]

He's honestly hurt me so much.

[Brokenwings]

He text me again saying he wants to batter me. I have had such bad anxiety over this it's making me throw up again.

[mymirrose]

If he is threatening violence & is scaring you, call the police, save the text so they can see them. It is another way to control you since the usual ways he uses are not working. The police will at least have a report to refer to if you need to get a pfa.

[hellokittykel]

I am actually a few steps behind you. I am still in an emotionally abusive relationship. I get called every name in the book if i don't comply to what he says. I want out. Its hard. The thought of leaving is the hardest thing ever. I moved away from home for him. Everytime I tell him i'm moving back he cries and begs me to stay and change. He never does. Yet after he grabbed my face tonight and covered my mouth so I couldnt breathe, I finally realized. I am definitely better off without him. The only reason guys retaliate with stupid comments or words is because they know they've lost and there pulling out there last resort. Reading all these posts really make me stronger. I have alot of anger but I rather be angry for a little while then to be stuck in an abusive relationship forever. Lets forget them

[CHANDLERS WISH]

He text me again saying he wants to batter me. I have had such bad anxiety over this it's making me throw up again.

Brokenwings......you are NOT broken....

Take note of WC's post and of mimirose's post.

You invested the most important thing your virginity to this man, and he's laughing, whilst abusing you, telling you he was not your first, threatening to bash you, calling you names...

Your desperate for him to believe you, why? He's not worth unfortunately the committment and dedication you put into that relationship...The only person you have to believe in is YOU... No one else matters...

I want you to laugh ...

I want you to say "you know what? I don't care anymore what you think, I know and that's all that matters, and I matter you don't, and in addition, your words are a waste on me, so was this relationship, go play with the traffic because that is what children do, don't call me, text me, anymore, because I won't be replying".....

You know he was your first, that's all that matters..... do not communicate anymore, change your telephone number, email address, what ever it takes and get on with your life......

CW

[stressed]

Change phone number right away. You have no reason to keep accepting this abuse from him. And 'batter' you? This is classified as a serious threat, you should take your phone to the police. Show this line to your family, someone who can help you.

Reading his words, which are lies with the intention to cause pain, does absolutely no good to you in any way whatsoever. He was the same in his previous relationship, he is doing it again with you. It's not the ex'es fault or yours, it's him, it's the way he reacts with those who have been close to him. You know he is lying, you know his only goal is to hurt your feelings and make you believe nobody will want you just because he doesn't (and only because you didn't want him in the first place), why are you putting yourself though this process?

He is worthless and tries to make everybody else feel as worthless as he does. Don't give that to him.

[Brokenwings]

Update

Hey Everyone...Just thought i do a quick update for you guys:

1. Its been a couple weeks now i have had no contact.
2. I have removed his messages/telephone number therefore I have no contact
3. I am seeking professional help as it will do me substanial amount of good helping me boost my self back up on the right track.

So i am okay guys.

Thanks for all the support.

[Brokenwings]

I am actually a few steps behind you. I am still in an emotionally abusive relationship. I get called every name in the book if i don't comply to what he says. I want out. Its hard. The thought of leaving is the hardest thing ever. I moved away from home for him. Everytime I tell him i'm moving back he cries and begs me to stay and change. He never does. Yet after he grabbed my face tonight and covered my mouth so I couldnt breathe, I finally realized. I am definitely better off without him. The only reason guys retaliate with stupid comments or words is because they know they've lost and there pulling out there last resort. Reading all these posts really make me stronger. I have alot of anger but I rather be angry for a little while then to be stuck in an abusive relationship forever. Lets forget them

Hello,

If he never ended it i certainly never had the courage to do so, but when i did he use to come crawling back! If you can find happiness without him then leave him as i dont think it is acceptable for anyone to verbally abuse anyone especially if they are not doing anything so wrong.

[WildChild]

Hey Everyone...Just thought i do a quick update for you guys:

1. Its been a couple weeks now i have had no contact.
2. I have removed his messages/telephone number therefore I have no contact
3. I am seeking professional help as it will do me substanial amount of good helping me boost my self back up on the right track.

So i am okay guys.

Thanks for all the support.

Good for you!!!
Keep it up!
No contact NONE NADDA ZIP

Do something nice for yourself everyday, doesn't have to be huge buy your self a flower or a balloon, take a bubble bath, do a positive meditation, some yoga, go skip or hop down the block - have fun, be a little silly, laugh.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Well done, it's hard but it's a good journey where you are next going