[CHANDLERS WISH]

"Hey stranger, want to get together tonight?"

Me:- Tonight? Get together? He's just after sex.

I think you should be texting saying "hey Ms stunner, hope you are having a good day".. Something like that No questions, text messages that says, basically you are thinking of her and opens up to a reply.. The above is how I would have taken your text message, given you had "amazing sex".. Also this is courting.. You have to make a girl laugh, smile, feel wanted.. Stranger makes or I think would make a girl feel "what, I've told you I am busy and now you are accusing me of not talking to you.. Text messages are weird in-deed.

[I_Am_A_Man]

hmmm, never even thought of it that way, Chandlers wish. It certainly was not what I was implying. I was actually hoping we could get together for dinner. I guess I'm old fashioned in that I typically save text messages for quick ways of making plans and If I want to talk/have a conversation, I typically call someone. Being that she works during the day, I usually cannot call so I just text her about plans for the night.

I think I will call her tomorrow or Friday and see if I can get her out for dinner.

[KMonte85]

Let us know how it works out!

[I_Am_A_Man]

Let us know how it works out!

I know she works on Wednesdays so I texted her this:

"Hey how's your week goin?"

Her response: "I'm having a horrible week. I'm sorry I've been distant...."

me: "Is everything ok? Call me if you want to talk about it"

no response and no call after that. I don't know how to interpret that but at least she acknowledged and apologized for being distant. I don't know if her horrible week has caused her to be distant or if she is being distant for other reasons. I guess the best thing to do is leave her alone and move on. I don't think it will ever work out if she is gonna be so vague and non-responsive. Oh well, can't say I didn't try.