[Bladyn'smommy16]

Please whoever can help. What should I do
I love my husband but I can't take the way he treats and talks to me
We have been together for 4 years we have a son. I'm sooo depressed I don't talk to anyone. I never leave the house. When I ask him to go somewhere he gets mad and says you don't respect that I have to work. I do respect it but I can't take being alone and stuck in the house. He has a car but I don't. I'm trying to get my license but I'm sooo scared to drive.
What should I do?!

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Anybody please help going through a rough time really need advice!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Hey sweet,

To even write that, suggests that you are crying and feeling really low huh.

Have you been stuck in this house for 4 years? Hold old now is your son...

Firstly, your husband should not make you feel guilty if you need something and can't attend to driving because you don't have a license, having said that he is probably stuck himself, you know, having to assist all the time with these things, is that why he talks down to you?

Off course you feel useless and depressed, un-happy. I am not sure if you can google getting a drivers license and actually read how it all works, and start studying, or whether you can re-gain old friends, or new ones and have someone teach you the basics without actually driving off course but I think that is your first port of call. .

I lost my lisence for 6 months, long story, and I won but in any event, whilst it was great to walk sometimes it was hard, alot of the times, just to get somewhere and it is depressing.

I guess it's time to tell us a bit more about your life so we can work out what else you could maybe do to not feel this way....

358 posts in two weeks suggests that you have time on your hands that could be for "you" something really good you love, even with a baby.

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Yes I'm crying.. I really didn't mean to sound that down in pathetic but I feel stuck
We have been together for 4 years we have moved a lot I've been in this particular house for 7 months
But let me start from the beginning I met him at 18 he was 26 we talked and texted all the time and hung out several months our relationship was rocky from the first few weeks he cheated on me but then we got back together then a few months later he cheated again . Then we moved to WV and lived together. He cheated on me again but by that time I was married and pregnant. I moved out for several weeks lived with my grandma. We some how got back together. We moved back home. Then at 8 months pregnant I found out he cheated on me with my own cousin... Skip ahead broke up when my son was almost one he got with some girl for a few weeks then we got back together girl says he's the father of his baby. Who knows if he is. He was soo sweet but now he just stays in his room we don't do anything or go anywhere but he leaves sometimes but I never do unless its with my mom. When I ask for him to sit and talk with me he gets annoyed. I just don't know what to do I'm soo depressed and alone. And my son is 20 months

[Bladyn'smommy16]

And to answer your question about having alot of time... Yes I do all I do is get up feed my son watch him play he takes a nap I go excerise for two hours he gets up I feed him he plays till dinner then plays some more goes to bed I watch tv or read then go to bed and that is my day everyday.....

[DreamP346]

Sorry to say this, but your husband sounds like a terrible partner. You've told us about all the bad stuff about him. Tell us the good. What keeps you with him? If you were to leave, do you have options. Do you have a place to go and some financial assistance?

[Bladyn'smommy16]

He use to want to be with me he use to be really sweet he was my best friend. Every time we break up hell be soo upset tell me how much he needs me he promises he will change well he does for awhile he is sick at the moment but he won't get insurance. And even when he wasn't sick recently something has just changed we use to watch movies we don't even do that anymore. We use to go ghost haunting we don't anymore . We do nothing ! hell watch some tv with me but when I try to talk to him he says he's trying to hear the tv.

[Bladyn'smommy16]

And I can live with my mom

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Mmmm.

Still no good things about him

Ghost hauntings? That I would love you to start a thread on, being a witch and all.

Now I can see why you do a few one liners with a grrrr, where cheating is concerned on the threads.

BM... We can be blinded at 18.. He is old enough to know better and how to treat a woman. He is a serial cheater and has no respect, for you at all.. He won't even communicate with you at all.. Just lets you sit there day after day..

Can you work part time?

I'm glad that you can go back to your Mothers.

You need to start to firstly create a life, and get to know you again, who she is, what she is missing, what she wants, needs. This helps you build confidence to do what is best for "you"....

Being down also means you may play with your baby but ultimately you're not happy around him/her and it would show.

You crave company up-most and for-most.. You don't even get that as you are not allowed to talk.

You need to take a good look in that mirror honey and realise your worth... You've grown, so has he, maybe out of each other and maybe he's only there for the baby, but he can't keep it in his pants, he can't give to one person and one person only not even in that compartment but in other aspects, such as togetherness.

Start building your new life around him for now.

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Yes I love all that creepy ghost stuff.. I believe in it!
Recently within the last 8 months he hasn't cheated that I'm aware of. Although he does act a little strange when I pick up his cell phone... :/
I can't work yet.. I'm scared to put my son in daycare because a friend of mine's child was molested and it ruined the child she was so happy and sweet now she's completely changed I would be heart broken if that happen to my son. I have to wait till at least preschool.
Yes I can't stand a cheater which is ironic.. I have never cheated and I'm being honest. I just don't see how someone that loves you could hurt you that way.
I think he's depressed but so am I.and he won't talk to me
Being alone is making me depressed and very irritable..
I'm moving in with my mother because he told me to leave if I don't like the way he is because he can't change.... So I guess I'm leaving for the a millionth time