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  • Bladyn'smommy16
    Veteran Member
    • Feb 2013
    • 618

    I have left finally

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    • time2discover
      Veteran Member
      • Feb 2013
      • 323

      Be strong!

      It'll be hard for a while but things will get better!

      From now on, life is all about you!. Doing the things you enjoy with your son,
      your mother and yourself. Every day you're gonna discover a new you!

      Tell yourself you love yourself and you're worth it. Soon you'll start believing it!

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      • Bladyn'smommy16
        Veteran Member
        • Feb 2013
        • 618

        Your right time2discover
        I'm going to look into some therapy maybe it will help me stop the vicious cycle

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        • Guest

          go for therapy for short period only , find natural methods to make u comfortable,

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          • Bladyn'smommy16
            Veteran Member
            • Feb 2013
            • 618

            Why only a short time?

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            • DreamP346
              • Oct 2011
              • 2053

              You said you wanted to make a list to remind yourself why you shouldn't return to him. Also make a list of all the things you want to accomplish on your own, for example:

              - Get in shape/go to the gym
              - Finish your education
              - Get a job and become self sufficient
              etc

              Promise yourself, regardless of what the future holds, you will not go back to him until you accomplish those. Make a list for him also. Do the same. If he truly does want to change and fight for you, he will change and accomplish the list you make for him and also be patient to let you accomplish your goals. If he does not, then you know that it will not work and he has not changed.
              Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)

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              • Bladyn'smommy16
                Veteran Member
                • Feb 2013
                • 618

                Thanks I'm actually in a process for a list for him if he ever wants to actually make this work
                It's a long list

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                • Guest

                  if u become mentally strong u ll need for a short time only B16

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                  • CHANDLERS WISH
                    • Mar 2008
                    • 22440

                    I like that Tulip.

                    The key is to obtain "some" help so that you know your direction and yourself, and from there take it on... Full on, because you will be a strong woman at that point. After all that is how we learn, with a little help from our "friends".

                    Be strong love, the list he will never ever follow but remember he will pretend that he will, ensure on top of the list is, the two things that you know he would never do or stick to.

                    Don't ever let a person bring you down to no return.. He hasn't... You can do this.
                    PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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                    • Bladyn'smommy16
                      Veteran Member
                      • Feb 2013
                      • 618

                      We broke up.... I'm very sad):

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