[Bladyn'smommy16]

I have left finally

[time2discover]

Be strong!

It'll be hard for a while but things will get better!

From now on, life is all about you!. Doing the things you enjoy with your son,
your mother and yourself. Every day you're gonna discover a new you!

Tell yourself you love yourself and you're worth it. Soon you'll start believing it!

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Your right time2discover
I'm going to look into some therapy maybe it will help me stop the vicious cycle

[Guest]

go for therapy for short period only , find natural methods to make u comfortable,

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Why only a short time?

[DreamP346]

You said you wanted to make a list to remind yourself why you shouldn't return to him. Also make a list of all the things you want to accomplish on your own, for example:

- Get in shape/go to the gym
- Finish your education
- Get a job and become self sufficient
etc

Promise yourself, regardless of what the future holds, you will not go back to him until you accomplish those. Make a list for him also. Do the same. If he truly does want to change and fight for you, he will change and accomplish the list you make for him and also be patient to let you accomplish your goals. If he does not, then you know that it will not work and he has not changed.

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Thanks I'm actually in a process for a list for him if he ever wants to actually make this work
It's a long list

[Guest]

if u become mentally strong u ll need for a short time only B16

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I like that Tulip.

The key is to obtain "some" help so that you know your direction and yourself, and from there take it on... Full on, because you will be a strong woman at that point. After all that is how we learn, with a little help from our "friends".

Be strong love, the list he will never ever follow but remember he will pretend that he will, ensure on top of the list is, the two things that you know he would never do or stick to.

Don't ever let a person bring you down to no return.. He hasn't... You can do this.

[Bladyn'smommy16]

We broke up.... I'm very sad):