[Guest]

don't get into trouble

just stay away n stay focused in ur job

[Guest]

Hello I started seeing trent for 2 months then he disappears on me I was told he went back to his ex girlfriend I moved on he came back into my life I believed his lies so I decided we should be friends we still were sleeping together this has gone on for 6 months I fell for him even tho I felt he was my best friend he was a player I knew he didn't have respect for woman but I thought I was different as we did have a good friendship I did everything for him we stayed at each others houses during week days weekends i rarely saw him I started to feel a bit used and wanted to stop the sex and just be friends he agreed but then i found out i was 4 weeks pregnant I was torn he straight away wanted an abortion so I agreed it was for the best for the baby as we were never going to be a couple and I couldn't raise it on my own and he would prob be in and out of the child's life he was so great and supportive told me he would always be there for me as a friend and I was his best mate but I started to want the baby he started to distanced himself 2 nights before the abortion he told me this baby made him realize he wanted and loved his ex and they getting back together but we would still be friends I was happy for them he promised I could stay with him to recover and he would look after me and we get through this together but once it was over we would just be friends the night before the abortion I was meant to stay he said no I don't want to be friends anymore I take you tomorrow but I deserve to be happy and my future girlfriend doesn't want you around I was in shock it wasn't the friend I loved he came with me to the clinic i wanted to run when i saw my ultra sound i was 6 weeks but i went through with it trent showed no support or comfort and was mean at clinic afterward dumped me said he needed to sort his live and i needed to get a life and stop being dramatic it was just an abortion and to get over it and maybe in future we could be friends I was heartbroken and begging him to look after me for the night, I managed to drive to my sisters and stayed there I tried to reach out to him as i was struggling with regret and guilt but he said I need to stop caring about him and stop calling him I said I needed him and we need to recover through this together as his loss too he said we not a couple and it was just a seed and not a baby and I got other friends that can support me and just to let him be, I'm so confused why he doing this ??

He is what he is. U seemed to be a sexual piece of meat the way he sounded. Beings he has a sort of girlfriend u may unfort.ly turn into his mistress if u still see him and he marries his girlfriend. Not a healthy relationship it sounds like. U may want to stop seeing him
He sounds like trouble. For all those times he is gone he is two timing his honey for u and other women possibly :-/ rather distrubing to say the least.. U r better off not seeing him probably.. In my opinion. U need a healthy bf/.. A man committed to only u. Loyal to only u.

[Guest]

So he has has MSG me after 2 weeks saying he's unsure how to feel about the abortion he didn't know how to talk about it and was scare now I'm more confused than ever I just started to feel ok

He unfort.ly knows u like him.. Keep far away from him. He seems to be really bad news :-(
U deserve so much better than him. he doesnt seem to committed to u. suggestion: stay away and dont answer his calls/. This sounds horrible.. Be kind of mad at him for how he is making u feel and Leave him alone. he doesnt mentally stable to me in my opinion. hello btw.. god help our friend she seems be stalkd sort of.. Help put an end to her abusive situation. give her strenght to take back her well being. Before she gets hurt or possibly worse.... Please.. Keep in mind abuse doesnt have to physcially it can hurt the way u r feeling right now. U may want to change ur phone numbers move etc.. Tell ur family u r possibly in trouble u need their help
he possibly knows what he is doing. :-( u may be in danger. My frirnd.

[Jade girl]

Thank you for your kind words I def am staying away I will drop his stuff to his cousins house if he wants it that bad so I don't see him I have come so far in two weeks I will not go back he walk out when I needed him the most and I will never forgive or forget that and I know Im better off with out him and deserve a decent guy who sees me as a person not a toy he can play with

[Guest]

u deserve better, just be away from him , u ll be fine

[Guest]

Thank you for your kind words I def am staying away I will drop his stuff to his cousins house if he wants it that bad so I don't see him I have come so far in two weeks I will not go back he walk out when I needed him the most and I will never forgive or forget that and I know Im better off with out him and deserve a decent guy who sees me as a person not a toy he can play with

Instead of droping off his stuff. If he lives at an apt. Complex leave it in there office/.. know when he is not there. have ur family come with u. never be alone. Keep in mind this is not a stable guy. be very careful.
Have mace available. Know how to defend urself and make sure ur family know how to
Keep in mind they maybe in danger also
:-(.
Get back in the social scene like church,.
Stay away from lounges.. And where u think/..
He may go. Stores,.. if u give ur life to God attend ur local church with ur family and
Caution them about his abusive conduct.
Never stop talking about ur ordeal.. U arent the only one who was mistreatd. Find local support groups create one in ur church..
To help victoms like urself... :-)
Good luck ;-). Get checkd out to make sure u dont have any std's... Or etc... :+/ asap
Suggestion ....

[Jade girl]

He's not a monster would never hurt me physically

[denise2]

Stay strong Jade Girl, You will be just fine and unfortunately when you least expect it, love will find you again. <grin> Men don't change. I alway's say that they're all the same and that God just gives them different faces so you know which one's yours. :0)

[jns]

Stay strong Jade Girl, You will be just fine and unfortunately when you least expect it, love will find you again. <grin> Men don't change. I alway's say that they're all the same and that God just gives them different faces so you know which one's yours. :0)

Jade Girl, While I agree with most of what denise2 said, I don't agree with that men are all the same with different faces (paraphrased). Find yourself a guy who has the same hopes in life and who is compatible about having children. Also find a guy who is financially capable of pulling it off, not just one who talks a good story but can't back his words with deeds. Find out these things early in a relationship, so you don't have to make hard decisions on such subjects later on when you are fully invested in the relationship. Such guys are out there, but you may have to look a bit.

[Scaredtoleave]

Awwww, I feel so bad for you. Men are evil, ok not all but a lot of them. I am raising the strongest, sweetest man, my son.

Sorry I got off track but your best bet is. Don't answer his calls, don't talk to him and keep your self busy, busy busy.