[AAA]

I feel for you, and take my hat off that you had the guts to leave, wish i did. We also have very little sexx, maybe 1 a week, and 99.99% of the times it is me that initiate it, and he that blows me off with he is tired.

I am really starting to think i am wasting my time on this marriage, i do hope that it all will change, but don't know how much longer i can wait for it to happen.

[jvincze]

Gee, I feel sorry for a lot of you men and women. I just don't get the asexual, non-sexual, don't care for sex attitudes. Sex [ making love] should be part and parcel of a relationship and a loving couple should be making love regularily. These stories I have been reading of little or no sex and once a month etc is just so wrong. I don't see how a loving relationship can continue. The women in particular who talk about little or no libido, or couldn't care for sex, in my opinion have a serious problem. If it's not medically related or mentally via anti-depressents, then they should have a good look as to the reasons why they don't feel like it, there is obviously an under-lying issue. It is normal for us humans to feel horny and want sex and the best way is to have with it with the one you love and together release your tensions and relax with each other in the after-glow.I'm nearly 50 and my wife is nearly 47, yet we still want each other very regularily as I have mentioned in a previous post. Go figure, I seriously think that some people who do not have a medical or mental issue need to take a look at them selves real closely and ask the big questions, am I still in love? what's changed since we first met? why don't I feel horny?. Go and ask yourselves. You are not nearly living a fullfilled and satisfied life with your loved one.happy

[Guest]

it depends in your work, time, home

[danceintx]

Well, my bf and I aren't living together, we both have kids we have to work around, but we averaged it the other day and we still do it about 15-18 times a week. It's awesome, I love it.

[danceintx]

But yes, men can do it more than once in a day. We usually do it 3-4 times in a 24 hour period on the weekend. He struggles sometimes on the fourth time though.

[GlitterAndStuds]

But yes, men can do it more than once in a day. We usually do it 3-4 times in a 24 hour period on the weekend. He struggles sometimes on the fourth time though.

Haha I hear that. If we ever do it more than 6 or 7 times in a weekend (which happens pretty much every week) he needs a recuperation day after. Not necessarily a bad thing!

[tjla]

ha, i am a newley wed married for only two months, and mine sucks, he says its cuz of stress but ya whatever. we might have sex every three days and its always iniciated by him, when i try to start it, like completeley bare and standing right in front of him, he just looks right past me, i want it everyday but he doesnt sooo my suggestion to you dont sweat it, go out and buy some "toys" to keep you enertained till he wants it hey it might actually help him to....when me and my husband first got together omg we did it like five times in one day, so ya its possible but very unlikley that a guy will do it all the time.

[getMoreFun]

this question is both for men and women,
How often do you have sex?
Is it more than once in a 24 hour period?
Do men get tired afterwards and cant move around for a whole day?

If you are newly weds, should you still have sex 1-2 times a week, always initiated by the woman?

please tell me what is normal for you, so i can judge my own life?

I have sex but not as much as I wished, I have, at least once a week, when I really need at least 4 times a week. My wife and I talked this already, but she always complaining of headache and so, I think I gonna get a girlfriend on the side :P

[Vapor22]

I agree with KMS

[danceintx]

I have sex but not as much as I wished, I have, at least once a week, when I really need at least 4 times a week. My wife and I talked this already, but she always complaining of headache and so, I think I gonna get a girlfriend on the side :P

And when you aren't talking to your wife enough, or doing what she wants enough, you won't mind when she gets a boyfriend right?