[manspoint]

Once a week, which adds up to 3 times a month (-1 weekend every month), all in all 36 times a year at best (minus special occasions/visits et.al.). And, nope, I'm not happy with it.

If we're going to do this mathematically, add 1 for your birthday and add 1 for his birthday. (Isn't great we get one for the SOs' birthday ~ bonus). Hopefully add an xmas one. Australia Day is a given, in Australia anyway. Maybe an Independence Day one, or what ever your countries special day is. Anniversary is +2. These cannot, I repeat cannot be included in the regulars. That is just not playing the game fairly.

[stressed]

If we're going to do this mathematically, add 1 for your birthday and add 1 for his birthday. (Isn't great we get one for the SOs' birthday ~ bonus). Hopefully add an xmas one. Australia Day is a given, in Australia anyway. Maybe an Independence Day one, or what ever your countries special day is. Anniversary is +2. These cannot, I repeat cannot be included in the regulars. That is just not playing the game fairly.

Oh don't remind me of birthdays... I've never had sex on my birthday or my S/O's birthday. Not on anniversaries or holidays either. Last Xmas was 'good' though, got it 3 times in one week! ........

-_-

I'm telling you, it's really bad here...

Edit: Just remembered my last birthday... it was on a Saturday and yet we were up all night playing on a console. The next day he told me that "he had planned for it" but he wasn't sure if it would be good and was thinking about it a lot that in the end he did nothing... pffft I say.

[WildChild]

Oh yuck.
Went from amazing and several times a week - I'd have happily done with a few times a day, to once a week to every 2 weeks, to 3 or 4 weeks to Zip. It got not only less frequent but way less fun or tender.
Now it's just nothing. Over.
Except he calls a couple times a day, goes through texting spurts and yesterday make a few sexually suggestive remarks which I didn't follow up on. He's playing games without even realizing that he is, doesn't really know what he wants. Now I'm the one keeping it distantly sweet, friendly and cool.

Not getting any, nothing in sight. Really at this point if Prince Charming rode up on his white horse, I'd probably slap that horse on the rump, yell "giddup" and smile as he took off in a cloud of dust.

I'm not settling for less than the whole thing, ever again. No kissing - goodbye. No touching - goodbye. No foreplay - goodbye. No conversation and real sharing- goodbye. Emotional shutdown - goodbye. None may suck but it's better than lousy.

[caterpillar79]

I'm not settling for less than the whole thing, ever again. No kissing - goodbye. No touching - goodbye. No foreplay - goodbye. No conversation and real sharing- goodbye. Emotional shutdown - goodbye. None may suck but it's better than lousy.

That's why you helped empower me and see who I can be now. You are a woman of strength, courage and wisdom.

[WildChild]

That's why you helped empower me and see who I can be now. You are a woman of strength, courage and wisdom.

Oh Dear Sweet Cat, you have weathered so much and come up smiling. I hold such dreams of happiness for you!

[caterpillar79]

Oh Dear Sweet Cat, you have weathered so much and come up smiling. I hold such dreams of happiness for you!

So do I for you and CW.

[caterpillar79]

Ladies and gentlemen, your attention, please. If you would allow me, respected OP, I would like to "change" the topic for now into....

from the moment you read this,
HOW SOON DO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX?

reason being...some of us who do not have our significant others close by, we want to "lighten" up.

[WildChild]

Huummm, well, part of me wants it right now.
But since I don't have an SO and am not into bed hopping, just have to lump it!

[Chrissy03]

well i'll take it right now and then again right after. I have a Husband but like I said he said he seems not interested

[rcoreyus]

Want to: Now. My wife has just gone to bed downstairs.
Will: If I'm lucky sometime in the next month or two.