[jgillen48]

Hi. I am kind of going through the same issue only my marriage is much newer. We've been married for three years. I have always known that my husband enjoys watching porn and there have been few times we have watched it together. Since we have gotten married we have one child and I work full time so my sex drive has definitely gone down since the honeymoon stage. There are times when he satisfies himself and I know this and so far it really has not bother me because I know that at least he isn't out with another woman. However, I saw on his phone the other day that he had been on a date hookup site. This confuses me because as the other woman mentioned I can understand nude pics but date sites don't display nude pics. I have really just ignored the issue and him since seeing this(yesterday) but I know I should talk to him about it. I don't think I am ready to end my marriage but I don't think I can just let it go either. Am I thinking irrationally?? I mean I know I have let the porn slide for this long so am I wrong to have different feelings on the "dating site" side of this?? I am really in need of someone elses perspective....