[CHANDLERS WISH]

DO NOT storm out Listen to the total conversation, if you storm out you'll miss some of it and be back to where you are.

If he's serious, about you and him, he won't joke with her..

And, funny you just stated that, because he may call her first to let her know, or after and apologise, so when you suggest this to him and why you feel it's important that you do this together, in that sense, ensure that, at that time, is the time he picks up the phone, there and then and does it.

You can't stop him calling back, there you have to "trust" him, it should be evident as you divuldge your plan of how you think "maturely" you can both deal with this, on whether or not he flinches, says it's a good idea, or trys to get out of doing it.. I think..

CW

[PandaPaws]

Hi. I also like the call in front of you plan. It sounds like it would put you most at ease too, to make sure he didn't send those emails recently. I think to avoid him calling her to warn her about the call, if that's what you're asking, tell him, "We need to call her right now." So there there is no time for him to call her behind your back. Then the phone number immediately gets deleted, as well as his recent calls so he can't refer to it, and all emails, FB messages from her, etc.

[stressed]

(Personal info deleted)

[stressed]

Then the phone number immediately gets deleted, as well as his recent calls so he can't refer to it, and all emails, FB messages from her, etc.

Yes, that too. Most definitely

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Yay, i feel young, I'm a girl

Good luck sweet

[jns]

Yay, i feel young, I'm a girl

Good luck sweet

Of course you are. You are a well read and properly experienced 25 year old.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Of course you are. You are a well read and properly experienced 25 year old.

LMAO, why thank you young MAN

[jns]

LMAO, why thank you young lady

But, he protests, "I'm a guy!" Glad to make you smile.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Darn, I went in and edited as quickly as I could too so you would miss that, ( it was habit) But you caught me, lol's.... Look above at mine, go on, I edited it, to MAN... Oh Man I feel silly now haha.

[jns]

Actually, CW, I am honored that you though of me as one of the girls. It means that my posts sometimes resonate with both sexes, which is great. Thanks.

I'm still thinking if I have anything to add to stressed's situation that hasn't been already gone over.