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  • kristalyn_04
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2009
    • 2164

    We're so proud of you Missy. Keep that head up, stay strong.

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    • Colorado
      Veteran Member
      • Nov 2010
      • 460

      I am so proud of you for following through Missy.

      It does take a strong person, and right now you need that strength to do what is right - Bravo! I'm so glad your parents are supporting you on this also, as you are going to need some support until you can wrap your thoughts around it.

      Missy, know that the one you miss is not necessarily the one you have left (I know thats probably hard to "get" right now); but, the one you miss and love - left YOU when he struck you. That is a step he took on his own, and is nothing for you to be ashamed of; it's a bed in which he must now lie.

      When you start to miss him, remember what he did to you and that he will continue with the abuse should you stay, and remember why you did what you had to do. Remember - and don't look back.

      You are in our thoughts and prayers, and we wish you well.

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      • Awoman2
        Member
        • Oct 2009
        • 86

        Whether you chose to have him arrested or not is your choice but this is just the start of things to come if you remained with this man. It's always up to you if you want to stay in a relationship like that. Honestly dear, just the start of things to come.

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        • nia
          Junior Member
          • Jan 2011
          • 2

          u have nothing to loose u should leave him without giving second thought.i am in same situation my husband is hitting me every time we having argument he said i m the one who provoked him all the time i seriously can't understand how!! we have love marriage he said he loves me but he just become out of control and he hits me.he gave me alot pain.he never realise how much pain he is giving me and i think the reason is for not realizing is that i didn't leave him.It is not easy for me to leave him i can't go back home every one will laugh at me if i ll go i don't want to face my family after divorce.and everytime he hits me he said it will not happen again i forgive him and gave chance with hope but i m emotionally dead
          now i love him too much but the pain he is giving me it worst really worst.if u have no issues about your life then i ll suggest u should leave him it's good to b live single rather then killing ur emotion feelings everytime.AND IT IS TRUE IT IS NOT FIRST TIME AND LAST TIME ONCE HE RAISE HAND ON U TO HITTING YOU IT IS DONE HE WILL DO IT AGAIN FOR SURE.

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          • nia
            Junior Member
            • Jan 2011
            • 2

            it is not easy to stand and hit back once i tried this thing and then he hits me so badly that i can't even walk he hurt on my back it was terrible then i made my mind not to hit him back some day he can kill me and say he loves me but i provoked him and he killed me . i have no way to go. he is nice man but with anger i feel my husband don't love me . we have love marriage and it is in pain now.

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