[kaylar]

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[C]

They want the trophy. The challenge. The getting a married man to prove their point. A good deal of them are hornier than heck. With the mixed up male population there are many women walking around in heat. Age means nothing. I know this more than anyone. I am married to a stud and women come on to him all the time. I guess that is why I love writing about my husband and myself. As you age it gets hotter, at least in our case it did.....

[kaylar]

One of my clients, (I'm a lawyer) was being
pursued by this harpy and after the divorce
I virtually got on my knees to beg him not
to marry her.

Of course he didn't listen, and when he
left my chambers I said to my secretary,
"Draft the Divorce Petition from now, and
we'll file it in two years."

This harpy who had run him down, virtually
tongue cleaned him, yada yada bump...

So just about three years later, he comes
in, upset, a total mess, and my secretary
brings up the divorce petition on her
computer, because we know why he is
here.

Now I did keep a straight face through out
the diatribe....

When courtney Walsh took 500 wickets...
(those who don't know cricket just say
he struck out five hundred batsmen)
the Harpy decided to reward him with
her body.

It gets better.

So excited that she got to go to bed
with Courtney Walsh she did everything
but announce it on the radio.

Anyway, before he finished his story
the Divorce petition was on the desk
waiting his signiture and he was amazed.

After allowing him to compliment me and
my secretary I let it slip that we had done
this document three years ago, just waiting
for him to give us dates and particulars.

In many cases if the man does leave his
wife for the harpy, those marriages don't
last more than three years, because the
harpy is not equipped to be a wife or to
be faithful or to even link random sexual
encounters to being unfaithful.

[C]

That is because the "harpy" knew only one thing.......and when it comes down to it, this can get old unless the woman has the power to keep a man stimulated in his mind besides in his bed.........A good wife, given time and with the knowledge of a lifetime can be more than a worthy competitor....but like all things, she has to learn her trade and remember to use it ALL her life.........

[kaylar]

A normal woman sees marriage as a partnership;
the other woman sees it as playing sex slave
to a paying customer.

[C]

A normal woman sees marriage as a partnership;
the other woman sees it as playing sex slave
to a paying customer.

No, I do not like the word partnership. I like the word companion, friend, lover, definately sex slave but only when he is my sex slave too. I believe that sexual happiness is the glue that holds a marriage together.

[kaylar]

Partnership is rather dry, but is a legal term which
defines as equal shares. As to the sexual aspect,
there are relationships in which this is not possible;
i.e. due to disease or separation.

I think it is the respect and primacy the other
obtains which confrims the relationship as the
most important.

When other people and events intercede that
is pretty much the death knell.

As to 'sex slave', I had used the term to suggest
that here was a woman who would do anything,
and I mean anything for this man...
(until she got him to marry her...)
which caused him to believe that she was his
virtual sex slave...

[C]

I will agree with you but I think with the times and so many men going acey ducey that women are much more desperate for a man. They will readily take on a married man as a lover and companion. Their husband has left them for a younger woman and so often it is their fault. They missed the boat in child rearing and did not give him the attention that he needed sexually. Another younger and willing women stepped in. She took care of his needs and loved him and did all the things that his wife was not doing. So his wife find she is 55 years old, past menopause and hornier than hell. That is true believe me. I have women writing me this all the time and besides I know it. So now we have another dimension in this. An ex-wife that is also ready to prowl on the older married man or even a younger man. She wants revenge and is good. She has had years of experience and now is ready to use it. She has been put out to pasture and is ready to rock and roll and she is believe me....

Proves no man is safe from the clutches of a woman. I know as my husband told me some things less than 6 months ago. Blew my mind. He did not act but boy did he get the temptations.....Dam harlots....

[kaylar]

I never blame the wife for the husbands straying.
You make your own decisions.

If a guy feels 'unloved' or isn't getting 'attention'
he confronts, as a 'man' and asks, and the marriage
either ends there or there is a change.

Men cheat to cheat. Few pass up 'freeness' and
in my country, they get to fill prisons in England.

Females come down here and make some ordinary guy
feel like he's 'somebody' promise to take him to England
fill him up with coke or give him a suitcase full of it to
carry up.

Up until about five years ago what would happen is
that a smuggler would have five characters on a flight.
He expects A to get caught here. And once A is caught
the idea that lightening doesn't strike twice meant B C
D E got through.

The Brits would check and take B and that meant C D E
got through.

The guy would be picked up and taken somewhere, and
if he had swallowed the coke it would be expressed or
if it was in a bag, that would be taken, and he'd be
dumped.

How did he get into this position?
Some gal made him think he was all that.

It stopped when the Brits did a check and found there
were 120 people on the plane and 60 had cocaine.

But the template; guy will succumb to any aggressively
sexual female holds up.

Put it like this, you have a friend, Mary. She starts to
annoy you with xyz, you confront her. Either she didn't
realise it, or makes it a like it or leave, and then you leave.
You don't just leave.

You have an employee. Her talking on the phone annoys you.
You tell her, listen no more private calls while you're working.
She continues, you fire her.

You don't just fire her, you tell her why.

In a relationship of any kind there needs to be that kind
of contact; so my best friend can tell me that my language
is filthy, or my perfume smells awful.

Cheating has nothing to do with the spouse.
Last thing on a cheaters mind is the spouse.

[LadyLane]

I've been married for eight years and every time I've gone out, my wedding band has been nothing but an attraction!! I was completely unaware of this and totally astounded! Married men of similiar ages are out and about and they have no problem looking for something on the side; it is assumed that you are either happily or unhappily married but a little "bored" - some spice on the side is all they are looking for, and they're really not shy about bluntly asking if you're happy or out looking.

I met a great guy one night; if I wasn't married and he wasn't married, we'd have been a great pair. We had lots in common and were actually inadvertently finishing each other's sentences, saying the same thing at the same time. He joked around saying his wife has LoJack on him; she tells him daily that she'll strip him of everything they have if he so much as kisses another woman and he's scared to death of her. He didn't sound happy but he didn't really complain. We enjoyed each other's company and said goodnight and "see you around" - but the entire time, his friends kept trying to butter us both up; how great we looked together, how rich he was (I thought they were lying but later found out he is extremely wealthy), how much we had in common, yadda yadda.

It amazed me how different the night may have been if I had been the one to say, actually, its not going so well... or whatever.