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    I have posted awhile ago on here about our sex life after kids. It's not bad by any means. We have young kids so we have to work around that and sometimes I'm just flat out tired and it outweighs that desire. I want to really get a few good nights of sleep and get my energy up and then rock my husband's world. Im just struggling to find a way to actually do that in a way that's like out of the norm, or in the style we used to do it when we were younger. Any fun, cute, sexy ideas? I feel like I'm losing my touch to be fun sometimes ?

  • did it in car after child was asleep one night
    also, went to basement where he has an office as he was afraid to use our bedroom since bedrooms right next to each other
    sometimes, he left work early to be home before kid got off elementary bus....he'd text "be ready"
    I really liked when he left work early cause it was hard to get time alone when kid was young (sadly, we went a no. of yrs without sex after we became parents)
    another time, we risked it at a hotel with child asleep on other side of room! we also have a "sex" game which tells you what to do when you land on each spot

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    • if you get any sex games, hide it good....we had it in drawer next to bed & kid found it! it was after I'd told her about sex end of 3rd grade but you should have seen her face when she realized what game was.....it happened too fast & I forgot it was in drawer

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      • Originally posted by amy40 View Post
        if you get any sex games, hide it good....we had it in drawer next to bed & kid found it! it was after I'd told her about sex end of 3rd grade but you should have seen her face when she realized what game was.....it happened too fast & I forgot it was in drawer
        Kids catch on very quick. If you are very concerned, already having a kid can be a form of birth control.
        I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
        ...
        Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

        From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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        • Originally posted by amy40 View Post
          did it in car after child was asleep one night
          also, went to basement where he has an office as he was afraid to use our bedroom since bedrooms right next to each other
          sometimes, he left work early to be home before kid got off elementary bus....he'd text "be ready"
          I really liked when he left work early cause it was hard to get time alone when kid was young (sadly, we went a no. of yrs without sex after we became parents)
          another time, we risked it at a hotel with child asleep on other side of room! we also have a "sex" game which tells you what to do when you land on each spot
          Those are good ideas and definitely doable. I like the leaving work idea. House to yourself, no rush and no need to be quiet. Plus it would be something to look forward to all day. Sometimes we dirty text back and forth but then it won't amount to anything later. I've been in the mood the past few days so I need to get something working for us lol

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          • Welcome back CapeCRunner ! Always good to see you!

            I have an idea that I've been saving up for my man...maybe you can use it too. My guy lives in an apartment building with difficult access, so it would be hard to just show up and surprise him. However, we cook meals together occasionally, and what I intend to do is this:
            Before I show up at his place, I'll stash some sexy clothes in the closet down the hall from his apartment. While making dinner, I'm going to say that we don't have any (make up some spice or milk, or whatever) and tell him I'm running out to get it. Instead, I'll go down the hall to that closet, slip into my sexy, sleezy little get up, wait a few minutes, and then go back and knock on his door. He will know that I've taken his keys, so he'll be wondering who is actually knocking on his door...and then I'll be standing there.
            He's a straight-laced guy, so the fact that I've been so naughty in the hall will be enough to send him over the edge...

            It's kinda silly, but I'm running out of ideas with my man...

            You could do some variation of that. Maybe say you have to run out for milk for the morning, then just change in the car, go back and knock on your front door and flash him, or whatever

            If you have a house and garage, I once pulled into the garage and after I turned off the motor, I put the door back down and got out of the car. He asked me what I was doing, so I stood in front of the car, with the lights still on, and started stripping. He got the idea and joined It was a great time, but the hood of the car was a bit warm - have a heavy blanket to throw over it, or make sure it was a short trip, so the hood isn't uncomfortable!




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            • Originally posted by atskitty2 View Post
              Welcome back CapeCRunner ! Always good to see you!

              I have an idea that I've been saving up for my man...maybe you can use it too. My guy lives in an apartment building with difficult access, so it would be hard to just show up and surprise him. However, we cook meals together occasionally, and what I intend to do is this:
              Before I show up at his place, I'll stash some sexy clothes in the closet down the hall from his apartment. While making dinner, I'm going to say that we don't have any (make up some spice or milk, or whatever) and tell him I'm running out to get it. Instead, I'll go down the hall to that closet, slip into my sexy, sleezy little get up, wait a few minutes, and then go back and knock on his door. He will know that I've taken his keys, so he'll be wondering who is actually knocking on his door...and then I'll be standing there.
              He's a straight-laced guy, so the fact that I've been so naughty in the hall will be enough to send him over the edge...

              It's kinda silly, but I'm running out of ideas with my man...

              You could do some variation of that. Maybe say you have to run out for milk for the morning, then just change in the car, go back and knock on your front door and flash him, or whatever

              If you have a house and garage, I once pulled into the garage and after I turned off the motor, I put the door back down and got out of the car. He asked me what I was doing, so I stood in front of the car, with the lights still on, and started stripping. He got the idea and joined It was a great time, but the hood of the car was a bit warm - have a heavy blanket to throw over it, or make sure it was a short trip, so the hood isn't uncomfortable!



              Well that seems fun! I like that idea. I like play harmless pranks so I think I'd be getting a kick out of it leading up to the big reveal.. it's a cute idea. and thanks for the welcome back

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              • Toys are also a great way to spice up sex with a long time parter. **** rings, anal beads, vibrators of any kind. If you haven't already you should check out wearable panties. Book a date night with your sitter, put them on, give your hubby the controller, and watch him watch you go crazy! I've also found that erotic massages are a really sweet and special way to connect with your partner. Like, if you really wanted to show him your appreciation one night (if he deserves it that is ), put on relaxing music, set up some mood lighting, oil him up and rub him down all over. Give him something unforgettable that he'll want to reciprocate. It feels so good to make your partner feel good!

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                • My man is having problems so ayong hard. He use to use drugs introviniously. But I’ve had a lot of guys that did but didn’t hv that problem. As I too am a old addict. I what can we do?

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                  • Originally posted by Nickie View Post
                    My man is having problems so ayong hard. He use to use drugs introviniously. But I’ve had a lot of guys that did but didn’t hv that problem. As I too am a old addict. I what can we do?
                    Welcome to WH Interactive forums. As men get older, staying hard can be a problem. Mentally it can become self fulfilling with the thoughts of losing the erection actually helping cause the loss of erection. Medications and illnesses can be part of it. Can he still maintain an erection to ejaculation while masturbating? Has he tried any of the prescription medicines such as Viagra and if so, what were the results?
                    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                    ...
                    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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