[mommy2Keyoni]

what i use is NAIR. best and easier way for me is get a full length mirror. stripdown butt naked sit with ur legs open and use ur fingers. u c exactly what ur doing and make sure ur careful enough not to touch ne thing but the places with hairs!!!! IT WILL BURN! as for ur butt lay propped up legs up and again use ur fingers make sure 2b very careful when goin near the actually hole. IT WILL BURN! i havent shaved in years cuz i always itch afterwards. so NAIRS been my best friend. i even have my bf use it on his privates. I HATE A HAIRY MAN! good luck.

[LittleLady77]

RE: unwanted butt hair!

Ladies, I have to say it's a relief to find that i'm not the only person with this problem, there must be lots of us!

I used to wax my butt every couple of weeks but it would grow back the next day so i'd have to pluck - very time consuming!!

I bought an epilator and it's fantastic as it works on short hairs - i can get all the way round and doesn't hurt at all, though I was having to do this every day as it grows back so quickly!

But... then I discovered Kalo which is fantastic to stop the hair growth. It's not permanent but will slow it down so now I only have to epilate every 3-4 days if I follow the instructions, so I'd recommend it to anyone, esp if you have course hair. It's not cheap but does the job and I think the hair growth is actually slowing down after 6 months use: *Removed outbound link*

So hairy ladies, 2 things to invest in:-

1. Plug-in epilator (not batteries as they go too slow)
2. Kalo hair inhibitor spray

You'll be hair free in no time.

Good luck x

[babygirl94]

same issue......mines very thing though but very dark! so its very noticable im so emberassed that my bf knows but he doesnt seem to make a big deal out of it...DO NOT DO LASER its a waste of money i got it done on my face and it has not helped me at all! my facial hair is still the same and i still find myself sahving it everyday

Just out of curiosity, does the gene that gives women a hairy butt, come from their mothers side, or their fathers?

The family that has more hair I guess? LOl

Hair on butt sounds better than scratches over butt and on c-sec tummy
plus breasts...

[Jackson24]

(I meant to add this to my previous post)
Too me my ideal body image would be to be born no hair other than my
head, be of just over average height so bout 190cms, so for later on
when i get old i will shrink down to a midget it will take longer for
it to do so before that would even happen to where im like half of 190,
i'd pass away by then.
Thirdly instead of teeth i want suckling tentacles that suck up food n
liquids, because really teeth just give you grieth (i cant spell) in
the end, right?
I also want a tubing thats like a tentacle again thats from my nether
region and it extends far away in a direction thats always behind me,
so i dont have to deal with any of that. Lastly a tan that never causes
cancer, n a mustache that says 'yeah i've been nude on camera, wat of
it?'

Coz really we all just want to not worry bout our bodys an just drink
and smoke an just not care, but thats just me.

[Jackson24]

I'd say if its bothering you, then its most likely very much annoying you to where its uncomfortable, stressful an sometimes hurts or alot of the time (oh not to mention the whole hygeine mess of it all!).

For girls n guys that shave are probably the most annoyed as you keep putting time and effort etc into making it go away for a few days if your lucky. If i was doing that, i'd most likely would have drown myself in the toliet or something after a while. BUT doing since you were like 13? thats insane....

your direction of your skins hair grains would be mutated or something and taken over your life, not to offend any girl here as me as a guy can understand your pain of what your going through as i went through the same thing, just not all that much, all i did during my youth is trim it so its not to make the direction of the hair growth get out of whack, n most guys would do that an so we find that not pleasant, so to do what you do is 'wow'.

But at least for you, you will always look good in the end. for most/average guys we look distastful not matter what effort we put into ourselfs, i guess we just rely on alot of confidence. Im not one with much confidence, i realise its partly because of body image so im just trying to change parts of me to make me feel better, an for some girls i guess thats why you do it too.

But to do that you really need to work out whats the best solution to removing hair from your skin, as everyones skins is different. I researched all the different methods an have tried prolly about have of them (and no i didnt go to hair removal salon for laser or waxing and decided it wasnt for me) im also too embarrased, but for girls your soo damm lucky to be good looking, body image for you is all the confidence, a guy could hope for. SO for you going to get waxing or laser or whatever, is very acceptable now. And now men are starting to do it alot, not really by the average guy yet but it will soon. anyways thats my 2cents, n am i outa of here......

[Martin]

Wow just wanted to chime in here, was really shocked at what I was reading. My wife has a layer of fuzz on her stomach, lower back, and but that is a little dark as well as some longer hairs in between her butt checks. She shaves her pubic hair and occasionally her longer butt hairs but IT DOESN'T matter! I shave my scrotum and trim my pubic hair, although recently my chest hair has started to grow in more and I am looking at waxing it. Its all about personal preference and most of all its YOUR choice. My wife use to be very subconscious about her hair when we were dating but we DISCUSSED it and now she calls me furry butt and I call her fuzzy butt.
Hair is natural most people have it all over some more then others, but it doesn't matter. If it bothers you then wax it or shave it (waxing is by far the better choice). Almost every post I read had people ashamed of their bodies natural growth, which is sad. Being hairy, or not have perfect breast, nose, butt, feet, hands, neck, armpits, and everything else everyone is worried about is not something you can control so you should never feel embarrassed by it, ESPECIALLY if you are going to a doctor or a spa. Oh and girls you are not alone, guys worry about their bodies all the time too and are just as irrational. Penis size, muscle structure, hair lines, body hair, butt hair.

The bottom line is this, if you are not comfortable with you body and what to do something to change it like waxing or lazer treatment don't feel embarrassed, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks (I guarantee you a doctor or a professional at a spa will not judge you they make their living helping people shape their looks). In addition you shouldn't feel pressured to shave or wax if you don't want to. Isn't the whole point of dating to find someone to spend your life with? Do you REALLY want to spend your life with someone who wont love you if you have some hair in places where magazines and TV don't show it?

[Jackson24]

i wouldnt feel soo embarrased girls, im a male n 'oh no a male reading our intimate threads', thing is girls have more knowledge about the same problem then guys tend to realise.

Back to you all being embarrased, considering most guys (such as myself) have exactly the same problem and alot of a more hair problem then prolly most girls as most hair genes tend to be on the male side of the family and not the females side as much, it tends just be more embarrasing for guys, although we all play the game of not caring, as do you i imagine.
Any guys here, stop me if im wrong but some guys are lucky an dont have hair on the their legs for example. Some are unlucky really unlucky, n get it coming up in all sorts of places.
And very few seek out solutions, as its mostly known to be 'unmanly of me/him' to wax his chest unless, his openly flamboynt and got a cute simle. enough bout guys though. Just wanted to point out that girls arent alone, that guys have it more locked in their genes making it harder to solve, an know im not pointing this out just to make it known that guys have more hair then girls, we win haha. No. thats stupid.
What i do, is remove hair from different areas on my body most upper atm, epliate it out, then exfoliate with very grainy cleaners that really cleans the skin etc, then lotion n if i need to moisturizer the area, if the skins very dry. wait a day or two for the redness to calm down, to regular exfoliating by loofah etc n lotion. n i have to say not only is my hair being reduced the more i do it. the better your skin feels n smells.

[Jocy[:]

Well when i was 11 i shaved my legs,& arms for the first time.
later then i shaved my vagina & then my stomach because you could see the hairss. Im ok with the shaving the stomach thing though cus my closest friend does it too'
Then after still at age 11 i shaved my butt'D:
I regret itt but i only did it once & the hair isint really noticable
but you can feel it':/
NOw i am 13 & i am scared when it comes to having relationships that the guy might not want to .

Somthing that i found out is that you can use the gel thingy that you blech your upper lip with & do that so you wnt see the hairs
somthing that ive thought of is when you blech your hair on your head
if you do it to many times it falls out.
So im thinking one day ima do it
& i so R E G R E T shaving my booty hair'/x

[Aly3]

I too have hair on my bottom

I just wanted to say hi and to let you know that you are most definetely not alone with your problems and feelings. My father is Portugese and very hairy, and I think unfortunately I got most of his genes when it came to body and facial hair. It all started when I was about 11 years old (I am now 30). I have thick, black, stubbly hair all over my body: My upper lip, jaw, chin, in between my eyebrows, my forehead, upper back, chest, belly, lower back, hands, arms, knuckles, bottom (and it's extremely excessive down there), legs, feet, and toes. I was sitting in a park quite a few years ago with some people I didn't know too well and apparently my shirt had lifted enough when I was sitting that it showed all the dark hair on my lower back. He leaned over and said to me, "You must have alot of hair on your . I bet you have to shave it." WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE SAY THINGS LIKE THIS??? Anyway, I can completely relate to how you feel. I've had boyfriends dump me because of my excessive hair, and the ones I have been with sexually, I make sure the lights are low enough that hopefully they won't see the hair on my bottom very well. I did have a boyfriend that approached the situation delicately, and lightly burned all the long hairs around my hole off for me. Unfortunately, we broke up and it grew back. I asked a girl friend of mine to shave around the hole for me, but she went overboard and basically shaved my whole bottom. Even though I've let it completely grow out at times, it is still ALWAYS prickly, no matter what. The last guy I slept with I knew was discusted with what he saw, and didn't want to have sex with me again after that. I'm sorry that I don't have any answers for you, but I do want you to know that you're not alone. I don't know what to do about it either as I am very low income and cannot afford electrolysis, laser, or anything like that. I tweeze where i can, and shave my legs, bottom, knuckles, feet, and toes. It's very hard to live with, and I too have to take care of it first thing in the morning before my boyfriend sees it, and also stash all my embarrasing hair removal items. I hate that it takes up so much of my life and so much of every day. It's an extreme burden that no woman should have to endure. Anyone out there that can relate I would love to hear from you. Thanks.