[Texinator]

what is a 15 year old girl a meant to do ??

Find a lad that isn't going to care about where she has hair..

[mysterywomen]

im 15 now and obviously going through the time with the lads, im scared to promote my self to the lads due to the ''hair'' i have it all over and inbetween the cheeks, what is a 15 year old girl a meant to do ??

[petrongalba]

Just out of curiosity, does the gene that gives women a hairy butt, come from their mothers side, or their fathers?

[bunnygoesrawr]

lol

yeah dont worry hun i have it too....and the thing about laser and waxing....just think of it as like gym class were you shower in the same room..and its only one person..just think of it like having ur little sister do it for you..like you said....i mean its just one person..they have seen alot of them...and if they had a problem with it they would not be doing that job..lol so its kinda like going for a Gyno exam..just close your eyes and dont think about them doing their thing..so just think..all i ahve to do is get throught some chick looking at my and cooter...but i will hair/stubble/itch free for a frew months...it will be fine....


hope i helped have fun!!

[lovablejenny]

is it bad to have hair right at ur butthole because it itches really bad and im scared of what people would think if they knew

[Aubrey]

Butt hair.. I wish I had butt hair..I've got butt scars and skin irritation, how about that.

[Andi]

Okay, let me just start off by saying it sucks how long it takes to find this thread in a search engine when you type in "women butt hair".... some pretty nasty sites show up, ha.

Anyway, I feel everyone's pain here. It's a sickeningly insecure issue. As it's most common for women to have hair in the lining of their bum, ya know, PUBIC hair, it's not so common to have that thick, darker hair ON the bum. I've tried to do some reading on possible reasons for it, and besides certain ethnicities having more/darker hair than some, hormonal issues popped up a lot, too. I'm not quite sure if that's an issue for me, since I have a pretty regular period. Who knows.

Well, back to the hair. I probably didn't notice any sort of hair on my bum until a few years ago (I'm 23 now). I don't know if I just wasn't looking before, or if it had just started to become more noticeable. I believe I started tanning around that time... 6-10 times a month ...something like that. Anyway, I have really fair colored skin, and I've heard that your skin starts to grow hair to protect you from the sun??? I don't know, but I have noticed more light, fuzzy hairs all over my body... could just be more noticeable from having tanner skin (I only tan before a trip, so I'm far from a "tanaholic"). SoOo, I'm thinking maybe the lighter, natural hair that we all have on our butts just... had some sort of reaction, and voila! A disgusting bum?? Ha, not a clue.

Okay, okay, so I'm rambling! Alright, so I bought the Tria Hair Remover Laser system thing (you'll be glad to know it's a few hundred dollars less than what I bought it for :-( ). I've only used the laser a few times. It's been hard to find the time to torture myself, and you have to start off doing it every two weeks. Ha, discomfort is not that bad... just little rubber band snaps... more intense at the highest setting. Anyhow, I think I'm going to try it on my bum. You have to shave, though, so that's what's keeping me from doing it these past few months. The closer the shave, the less pain. Ugh. I really have to get dedicated to doing it, 'cause if it works, in 6-8 months... it may no longer be an issue for me. THAT WOULD BE AMAAAAZING. So, I'll try to come back to the board later and let you guys know how it goes, 'cause I know if any of you feel as half as bad as I do about it, then this could be a total blessing. ♥

[LazyDaisy]

I've got very fair skin with dark hair, especially between my butt crack. I've had it since I was a young teenager. Let me tell you, from my own experience I firmly believe it is all about confidence. I used to be embarrassed of my "problem" but I don't think guys really care. I dated my now ex-boyfriend for 4 1/2 years and he loved my butt. The hair in between my cheeks and around my anus never bothered him. In fact, it seemed to turn him on. I've never removed the hair there and I most likely never will. If a guy has a problem with it, he's been brainwashed by the media to think girls should only have hair on their head.

[robinsd]

it does get annoying...

I've gotten a Brazilian a few times, but it is sort of uncomfortable. And I always think, why is another lady doing this, when I can do it myself? So, I usually wax that area when it starts to get outta control. Yes of course it hurts at first. But, I feel much better & cleaner afterwards. Plus the hair starts to get thinner the more you wax so hopefully after a while, I won't have to keep on waxing. And I think waxing is cheaper than Laser. And you can do it in the comfort of your own bathroom. I bought the wax warmer & I use GiGi hemp wax(kit) & keep it on (low) until I'm done doing my thing. And I get the muslin strips too since it removes hair much better than the weird white strips that you usually get w/ any wax. You should try to get one of those "female" area trimmers too. If you get your hair down to a length (maybe about 1/4 of an inch) that is easier to wax, it won't take as long & it won't be as messy. I've done this quite a few times, & I even wax my own legs & armpits. But, if you do wax, watch some tutorials on youtube if it is your first time... And make sure to "prep" the skin first & be sure that the wax is not too HOT! Good luck!

[Shortstuff99]

Well i had my husband trim my hair and pubic hair and let me tell the torture now. He didn't do it all the way down but enough that now it's stubble between my butt cheeks! It's so sore and irritated especially when I walk and then when I am just sitting it hurts too it prickles and probably so sore from the walking and prickling. I hate it and wish I had never had him do it. It's not like he even cared about it it was my choice. He was trimming my pubic hair which has been fine so I though hey would you trim my hole while your at it and so he did.
I am 23 weeks pregnant so it really limits what i can use to sooth the hole and the skin around it. I am told by a pharmasist that I can use hydrocortozone cream once a day sparenly on my skin, didn't ask about the hole. Lucky I am going to the OB tomorrow morning so will get to ask what I can use if anything. I am very embarrassed to ask but i have to due to the irriation driving me nuts.
Any suggestions and help appreciated. Also anyone done this and know how long I have to endure this suffering, will it take months for the hair to feel normal again? Please some comforting advice and help would be lovely!