[Hystorm]

The wife and I are the same. She is 34 and I am 40.
For the most part, its a good thing as she has had issues in the past with not being able to go at all or not go soon enough to keep up with me. (we are talking like, 30-mins here not 2)
Now, she seems to go in 20seconds to 1 minute. Her quickest was the 20-seconds. Was totally wild when it happened. I was just getting started.
The only bad part is quick orgasms are not nearly as powerful as the slow build up ones. Other than that, there is no down side other than the missing of long lovins!

[WildChild]

Hystorm, she should start working on going multi. I can't offer advise on how to get there cuz I did it without trying - that may indicate that part of it is mental- just deciding to. I've seen articles and such on it so there is info out there.

[Livelaughlove]

I know you wanted the men to stay away from this thread. however i just want to make a few quick points.

Even if you do become multi orgasmic or you find ways to make yourself last longer there is still the issue of your husband... It really doesn't help your purpose if your man finishes and then goes to sleep while your there unsatisfied.

I do agree with CW and maybe it is more of a scheduled night rather then one of passion and lust... Since it is a weekly occurrence to have sex in a certain night at a certain time. Maybe both of you are just trying to get through with it as soon as possible so you can go on with the rest of your day/night.

I think the way for you to solve your problem is really to talk about it with your husband. I'm sure he will be more then happy to accommodate you. Just make sure your care full about what you say... You dont want to accuse him of being a bad lover rather you just want to try something new.

I wish you the best and many happy times

Live laugh and LOVE.