. I decided to tell my boyfriend just a little while ago why I was nervous to have anal sex with him and what I was worried about happening, and he was TOTALLY mature about it. He said that if anything like that happened, he said he would understand and that it is natural so its not a big deal. I was surprised, but then I wasn't, because that's just the kind of guy he is. Thanks for your advice and help! And yeah, I love eating lol so I don't think I'd be able to stop eating even if i wanted to.
-
Faerunner: Your absolutely right
. I decided to tell my boyfriend just a little while ago why I was nervous to have anal sex with him and what I was worried about happening, and he was TOTALLY mature about it. He said that if anything like that happened, he said he would understand and that it is natural so its not a big deal. I was surprised, but then I wasn't, because that's just the kind of guy he is. Thanks for your advice and help! And yeah, I love eating lol so I don't think I'd be able to stop eating even if i wanted to.
[FONT="Century Gothic"]"Fear of the unknown.
They are afraid of new ideas.
They are loaded with prejudices, not based upon anything in reality, but based on… if something is new, I reject it immediately because it’s frightening to me. What they do instead is just stay with the familiar.
You know, to me, the most beautiful things in all the universe, are the most mysterious." - Dr. Wayne Dyer[COLOR="DarkRed"][/COLOR]
[/FONT] -
Jacks-UP: I actually saw it because he stopped and showed me and he kind of freaked out. Yeah, I guess situations like that separates the boys from the mature men. Thanks for your reply.[FONT="Century Gothic"]"Fear of the unknown.
They are afraid of new ideas.
They are loaded with prejudices, not based upon anything in reality, but based on… if something is new, I reject it immediately because it’s frightening to me. What they do instead is just stay with the familiar.
You know, to me, the most beautiful things in all the universe, are the most mysterious." - Dr. Wayne Dyer[COLOR="DarkRed"][/COLOR]
[/FONT]Comment
-
As a guy, it has happened with partners I've had, and I actually found it quite erotic... maybe I'm strange, and judge me if you wish, but everything about a woman is beautiful to me, yes, even her bodily functions.
If you stop to think about it, what foolish person would expect to play in that area and never expect an incident. Now that would be weird, if you stay together long enough, it's going to happen some time.
I think people get over the "poo phobia" after their first child, as if you've managed to avoid dealing with it until then, you're going to have a rude shock to deal with.Comment
-
been there!
Same happened to me.. twice! The first time it happened i was really really drunk and i really didnt think it was my fault, although the second time i was sober and it was definitly my fault! my boyfriend was very mature about the whole thing and said that it was a good thing and a compliment to him, meaning that i had a really good time, he could have just been saying that to make me feel better! It hasnt happened again because im afraid to let myself get to that 'point'. I looked it up in the internet for a while after and it basically said that it happened when your body was so relaxed that it just let everything go, as people have said already in this forum. So dont worry about it, im sure if your friend is mature he wont find it off-putting!Comment
Get The Newsletter
Latest Activity
-
Acesup, we’ve talked about this quite a bit in your other threads, and one thing I’ve never questioned is how much you want your wife to enjoy sex...
Today, 06:19 PM By JonnyR -
Reply to Men and woman - rejecting someone?
I'll be honest as a guy I have a real pet peeve or sore spot that used to make me really angry about being friend zoned. Still does except I'm married...
10-19-2026, 12:45 PM By Acesup -
Encourage? Hell I wish my wife would encourage me to buy her a vibrator, or anything else to try to make sex more enjoyable for her. I wish my wife would...
10-19-2026, 12:31 PM By Acesup -
Reply to Men and woman - rejecting someone?
Ooo this is a good one!
So many possibilities -- for me, I have to balance being what I call "conscientiously honest" with also...10-15-2026, 08:57 PM By JonnyR -
Out of curiosity, what is the most respectful way you've ever been rejected or "friendzoned." I always feel terrible and like to do it in the...
10-15-2026, 02:44 PM By Birdie_567
Latest Topics
-
Out of curiosity, what is the most respectful way you've ever been rejected or "friendzoned." I always feel terrible and like to do it in the...
10-15-2026, 02:44 PM By Birdie_567 -
How are we all handling birth control now these days? I got the Nexaplanon 5 years ago and its time for a renewal. When I got it there was a huge buzz...
09-15-2026, 12:29 PM By Birdie_567 -
Hello, I’m 40, a cis woman, and I’ve been married for 10 years. We were having sex and I was nearly to climax when it sort of just dissipated. This...
09-08-2026, 08:19 PM By Mermaidsheets
Comment