[Joy]

well like they say shirt happens lol

no really its all good and he sounds mature so i would let it go

[lucey1]

Soph23, this just happened to me too. I have been SO mortified and disgusted at myself. It's been a great help to find this posting and the sympathetic responses to it. Even though my boyfriend has been SO fantastic about it and not worried by it, I was considering not seeing him again as I was just so embarrassed and thought I was the only one this ever happened to. But, like someone said, **** happens.

I still haven't got "back on the wagon" so to speak and am now feeling anxious about having sex with him again.

[Guest]

I'm a guy and although I can understand you ladies feeling embarrassed about it, you shouldn't be. That's happened to me a few times, and I know the lady involved didn't mean to do that.

If you are worried about it happening again, maybe a a shower or something beforehand.

Bottom line (pun intended), if he's a halfway decent guy, he won't be upset.

[acerousme]

NO1...love the bottom line joke...lol

honestly...dont worry. I know it is embarassing, but hey...you were getting "nurtured" by "nature"...so to speak...my sister had it happen...she called me (ME..HER SISTER, not a friend) and cried...and cried. Its just digested food...dont worry...keep at it!

[allison321]

dont worry

Hey hun, this has never happened to me before. Considering I am still a virgin, but I do have 4 brothers and they live on the topics of farts and poop. So I wouldn't be so hard on yourself! I know how embarrassing it may have been but like somebody said above (its not life threatening) He sounds pretty understanding and that you guys can still do the duty, so put it in the past and live for the future just make it up to him next time you guys get down ---Allison

[voila]

thanks for posting this

I just had the same thing happen to me last week, and have been mortified. in my case it's also a friends with benefits thing, but it's only been 2 months of the benefits part. unfortunately, in my case we hadn't quite finished the deed, although it was going great, when he discovered the poop. I ran to the bathroom to rinse off and he got dressed and decided to leave. he was nice about it, but I could tell he was kinda freaked out. and now, I haven't heard from him. i'm glad some guys have chimed in here, because it's nice to get the guy perspective. to me, we should be able to just laugh it off and move on, but maybe as has been stated he's not mature enough to handle it.

anyway, just glad to know it happens sometimes to others.

[angelica]

Hey everyone.
I'm friends with benefits with one of my guy friends. We've been having sex for close to 2 yrs now. He came over this evening and we were doing doggy style and had great sex. He was going hard and deep. After we both had orgasms he went to the bathroom to take off his condom. That's when he noticed and told me that there was some poop on his condom. I felt sooo embarassed. I started crying. This has NEVER happened to me before. Has this happened to anyone else? He also had some near his crotch. He told me not to worry and that we'd have sex again. Can this happen during sex? I'm scared something is wrong w. me. Please help!

You are not crazy.. my ex came over this morning and we decided to have one last day of passion.. to make a long story short i pooped while sitting on him facing him and it wasnt just a little.. he told me not too feel bad and kinda ran out of my apt after showering-wasnt that upset about the running out part cuz he always did that(thats why we broke up). but was expecting a fone call to see if i was ok because honestly after he left i tried to think of situation that was more embaressing and i could not come up with one.. i tried calling him and he hasnt returned my fone call.. I'm also very upset.. i just experienced the most humiliating experience of my life and he could care less... I am i crazy????

[angelica]

I'm a guy and although I can understand you ladies feeling embarrassed about it, you shouldn't be. That's happened to me a few times, and I know the lady involved didn't mean to do that.

If you are worried about it happening again, maybe a a shower or something beforehand.

Bottom line (pun intended), if he's a halfway decent guy, he won't be upset.

ok how does takin a shower before hand prevent u pooping.. does that work for you???

[Hopeless Dork]

I've queefed during sex and my boyfriend could tell I was embarassed and he appologised to ME.. and said I'm sorry thats probably my fault. How sweet huh? One time during anal I passed gas as he pulled out of me and he acted like he didn't hear it even though it sounded like a fog horn lol.

In fact, the day after that first anal experience I kept passing air without control because I was dialated and I was so humiliated at being gassy without warning, not being able to exit or excuse myself to do it, or to hold in.. it would just happen. He again acted like he didn't even notice.

He knows I embarass easy and that is the best way to handle it with me, is to just move on and forget it with those kinds of things.

I have not had any experience to this point where I have had an accident during any activity, but since we occasionally do anal - I have a fear about that happening so I take precaustions such as not eating within a few hours before, making sure to have emptied and showered prior to the main event on nites I innitiate that act.

If I havn't done that , I don't let him near the rear door. Perhaps, even though this happened to you from vaginal sex, that you can do the same precautions one does for anal sex, for regular sex - just to help you feel more confident. You've been having sex a long time and this is the first time it happened it probably wouldnt happen again anyway... but you are likely to be nervous I am sure.

For the ones that had guys walk out on them for an accident, think that you didn't lose much. When you love someone, really love them, you spare their feelings as much as possible, and understand that life is full of surprises, both welcome and unwelcome ones.

I am sure you are going through a lot right now, I know I'd be mortified too but you gotta keep pushing on forward. You can't change what has happened, don't let it make you miserable. Chin up, onward, forward.

[Guest]

he told me not too feel bad and kinda ran out of my apt after

That.. Really sucks.. Me being a guy, I would never do that, and also me being an anal lover, I know what to expect when I'm adventuring around that area.. Saying that my girlfriend would obviously still be embarrased if that happend.. But I really wouldnt mind, I'm mature in that way, its natural and thats the bottom line.. If it where to happen with me and my girlfriend I wouldnt see it as an embarrasing thing, I would see it as a natural thing..

Everybody poops