[angelica]

That.. Really sucks.. Me being a guy, I would never do that, and also me being an anal lover, I know what to expect when I'm adventuring around that area.. Saying that my girlfriend would obviously still be embarrased if that happend.. But I really wouldnt mind, I'm mature in that way, its natural and thats the bottom line.. If it where to happen with me and my girlfriend I wouldnt see it as an embarrasing thing, I would see it as a natural thing..

Everybody poops

hey thanks for your sympathy.. we wernt having anal sex tho..if we were i would not have been so surprised and mortified...

[moonstruck_chick]

That is embarassing, but if hes mature and understanding get over it.
Its understandable because if hes going really hard and deep your body needs to completely relax in order to enjoy it. I've worried about farting or pooping when getting ed really hard...never pooped but defenetly farted...sometimes its hard not to! thers so much pressure on that area in some positions!
i wouldnt worry about it, embarassing stuff like this happens to everyone.

[Isabellacat]

This has'nt happened to me before while with somebody thank God,but I have had a minor accident while using my dildo once. It's not a good feeling...but I guess reading all this makes me feel you should'nt be so hard on yourself if it does happen. Should'nt be embarrassed I suppose.
Like they say,if sex ain't dirty you're prolly not doing it right.

[spiritbear]

so glad i found this thread

Last night for the very first time in my life this happened to me also. I was so embarassed I cried also. My boyfriend took it as no big deal but I could have just died on the spot. From reading in other areas I found that depending on where in the vagina he is pressing upon this can happen. Also we had drank some wine which I think relaxed me more than usual. We just agreed to not mention it again as it's no big deal in the large scheme of things. I am just so happy I am not the only one this has ever happened to. Thank you.

[kira]

The wall between the vagina and rectum are fairly thin. If you are getting close to when you would feel the need for a bowel movement and pressure goes to the wrong spot it could push things out all by itself. If I slip my finger in my vagina and push toward the back wall (down if laying on your back) I can even feel things in the rectum. Add in abdominal muscles contracting which have an overlap between the ones you use to push on your intestines and the ones you use to contract the vagina and you have another factor that could help push things from farther up in your intestines.

If you are having regular bowel movements it should be easy enough to make sure you have been to the bathroom in a close enough time to when you start having sex. If not it's a bit more difficult but still a little forethought is usually enough to prevent really embarrassing problems. Also make sure you clean up well afterward. Doing doggy style could spread things if you simply didn't wipe/wash well enough after the last time you used the toilet. That's where taking a shower before comes in useful. It will also help prevent possible vaginal infections.

[asiangrace]

This hasn't happened to me during sex, but it did when we were messing around with a butt plug! A little bit of poop was on it when he pulled it out. I almost died but my boyfriend was really nice about it. When we're doing doggie style, I always feel like I need to go to the bathroom. When I get that feeling, I just tell myself to relax and it's just the penis making me feel that way. The same with anal.

I think it's natural. So if a boy walks out on you because of that, then you don't need him anyway! Like boys don't do anything embarrassing or gross....yeah right.

So, chin up! :-) It happens to the best (and worst) of us!

[Toma]

If I said anything as rash as " happens", would that be out of line? lol

No seriously, I'd say meh, forget about it, embarressing things happen to all of us... I'm guessing you've never cum to early... hehehe

[uonlywish1981]

This just happened to me, only maybe worse. He came over for a quickie before work, so I very quickly peed, brushed my teeth, etc. A few minutes later he was playing with me/down there, and he says "uh...its kinda gross"...So I go into the bathroom, wipe, and see that there had been a little bit of poop (not a lot but you could see it on the paper) on my vagina!! A little tiny bit mustve come out when I peed and I wasn't careful in my rush. I am SO embarrassed. He said it wasn't that big of a deal and that he should run to work anyway. Ahhh!

[CrimsonDonna]

If you're worried about something happening, do what the pornstars do... give yourself an enema earlier in the day and make sure you have had all BMs before the fun begins.

[sungirl]

Hey everyone.
I'm friends with benefits with one of my guy friends. We've been having sex for close to 2 yrs now. He came over this evening and we were doing doggy style and had great sex. He was going hard and deep. After we both had orgasms he went to the bathroom to take off his condom. That's when he noticed and told me that there was some poop on his condom. I felt sooo embarassed. I started crying. This has NEVER happened to me before. Has this happened to anyone else? He also had some near his crotch. He told me not to worry and that we'd have sex again. Can this happen during sex? I'm scared something is wrong w. me. Please help!

This just happened to me and I want to die. My boyfriend was so rude and accused me of having anal sex with other men. He said he read that is why this happens. I have been with no one but him. I am so upset and sick to my stomach.