[LanaBear]

Their definition of orgasm is different from mine and probably yours too; any time the gentials feel better than the rest of the body.

HAHA - well yeah then, that is definitely different than my definition of an orgasm.

[WildChild]

Ok. so here's my current waiting to read list in this category (I typically have 3 or 4 books going at once)

The Art of Sexual Ecstacy - glanced through looks interesting indeed
I Love Female Orgasm
Kissing School

I'm thinking there should be another floating around here but don't know what I did with it or remember the name- have to check my Amazon list. These ought to keep me busy and juicy for a while. Also have some stuff on the computer to read (didn't forget it LLL) as well as some other material I'm reading.

Anyone have some others to recommed?

[WildChild]

Finished, Golf in the Kingdom, which I really enjoyed and started, The Kissing School. What a wonderful book! She speaks to something I have talked about and thought for a long time and that is that kissing and sex really need some instruction, they are too important to be left to such haphazard learning. And here there's been a kissing school for over 10 yrs! What she has to say about intimate connection and the the Inner Lover, brought tears to my eyes. She really speaks to my spirit.I can tell this is one I'll read and reread and recommend.
Who knows, one of these days I may get back to Seattle and take a class. I love kissing, all types, I could and have done it for hours and have cum from kissing. In some ways it is more intimate than intercourse.

[Texinator]

Ever thought about starting your own book club?

[Ahryin]

Wild did you ever finish that Tantra book?

[Ahryin]

Wild that would be awesome! Start the club then we could meet here once a month or a week and discuss the book! WHOOOOHOOOO

[WildChild]

That might be fun but it would be probably be more effective with IM or something like that, don't you think? I'm not very familiar with that sort of thing (bit of a luddite) but it seems faster communication would be good. I don't know...

[empty vase]

rofl!! i have to say i've really enjoyed reading this thread and yes wild, the authers should pay you for advertising. you really sold the books.

book club sounds wicked

i'ma go look for some these books

[WildChild]

Finished Kissing School. that was a slow read for me since I'm not getting any kisses. Absolutely worth reading!

Recently got The Orgasm Bible by Susan Crain Bakos, haven't had time to do more the give it a glance through, but it looks every bit as good as Orgasm Loop. My only objection is that the people in the picutures are just a little too perfect looking. I look forward to finding time to dig in. It might be another slow read. Reading about sex when you aren't getting any is just a tad depressing. But hope springs enternal and you have to keep life juicy.

[Rediscovered]

Here are my current favorites that deal with a style of lovemaking called "Karezza," although the two books differ in theory a bit--

Cupid's Poisoned Arrow (by Marnia Robinson, companion website is reuniting ) Her website contains a forum with tons of information for porn addiction sufferers, as well (lots of men blogging their experience, too--very enlightening and interesting)

Energy Karezza (by Dr. Stanley Bass) While Ms. Robinson advocates abstaining from orgasm in order to heal your sexual relationship through healing touch, Dr. Bass' book is geared more toward men withholding orgasm in order to better please their partner.

Both books have changed my thinking about "normal sex" (hungry, goal-driven, fertility-based) versus "giving sex" (no goals, just giving touches).