[baxter]

Is this weird that a guy just signed up to this forum? anyway I did to help with this problem. Being a guy this is all based on my experiences.

So, I know this has already been said, but your boyfriend should to wear a condom, absolutely, because for me I'll last about 0.5-2 times longer than without one, which may not be enough for you but its a step in the right direction. And if you want to go all out no sensation get thick ones i guess- but thats no fun.
Since we never have used HBC, condoms only, i know how crazy good it feels if we start off without one on (wow- like heaven) because i've never got fully used to that by doing it subtracts time from the total amount available.

Three other things can help,

1. have sex a heap more often for him to get more used to it- i have no idea how often you do it so this might not be valid, but speaking for myself, i'm deprived for 2 weeks away every month now with work and I've noticed that just because of this (less sex), i've begun to not last as long, which is frustrating, and when we have sex more i last longer. Also, don't go down on him too much before sex, i guess you figured that out already.

2. since it seems your not open about your issue it could be tricky to suggest this, but if he was to get himself off about an hour before he thinks he's gonna get some loving then that helps too. Tell him to do that.

3. Have a drunken love making session. The more i've had to drink the longer I can last, i'm probably not alone, in fact I cant even cum if i'm fairly drunk. So break out some wine and have 2-5 glasses of wine with dinner and you can be romantic with ulterior motive

4. oh yeah, and of course, if you give him ~5 minutes to perk up then round 2 lasts so so so much longer. About 2-4 times as longer- for me anyway.

If you try all of these things at once i'm sure you'll get what you want. But most of all i really think you guys need to be open about this and work through it together, there is nothing better than openness about everything in a relationship. I'm sure he is aware of his lack of staying power already if you almost never orgasm so you probably won't destroy his world if you ask him to wear condoms and last longer.

[Angelic]

A Woman's Orgasm

He may not be able to control how fast he climaxes, but he can learn to satisfy you in other ways not dependent on a erection. Clitorial stimulation is key and his hands are the best tools, most dexterious, don't tire, and leave his mouth open for communicating!

[mymirrose]

Baxter- it is nice to get the male point of view, so I for one, am glad you joined this site.

[sTyLeRock]

HI

Hello,

Okay so he comes pre-maturely and i give u hi-five for staying with him and not cheating as i know some women would,

there are many solutions to this problem.

Get a think condom, OMG I FIND IT IMPOSSIBLE TO CUM IN THESE GOD FORSAKEN THINGS

There are many pills and a new naval spray i heard on raido about helping men last longer, i think they say it can extend a 2 minute man into 10-15, so thats a start.

Another thing.. that might work.. okay theres a personal backstory to this, i was trying desensitizing anal lube on my g/f (she find anal very painful) and well i got it all over my penis before it dried and made her numb, in turn my penis was almost completely numb and we had sex for an hour before she threw in the towel and couldnt take anymore orgasms lol.


So yeah try numbing his penis a little.

And final method would be viagra, slip it in his drink and go for a ride.

-Daniel

[sTyLeRock]

Angelic - She states that he pleasures her in other ways, but that is a point that there are numerous ways to get a orgasm weither its clitoral or vaginal,

But i think the OP is missing the intimacy of intercourse (just a guess)

Baxter - ur not first male to sign up, there are a couple regulars with like 1000+ posts he he

[BoB Dylan Fan]

look up PC muscle exercises it might help him last longer
I have read some people can last a whole hour from doing these exercises

[WildChild]

Some things do just need a male point of view. We do value our men on here.

[cassie66]

my first hubby was like that it would be over in seconds he never did ask for help embarressed i guess

[rest1234]

A man view

I agree a couple of drinks
sometimes 2 500 mg Advil or Tylenol
Remember a man's testicle draw tight to his body for him to cum GENTLY massage his bag so it gets loose then VERY Very Very Gently with your fingers pull his testicle SLIGHTLYaway from his body GENTLY. I find it make me last a long time and often do this myself when my wife and I make love.

[Jungle_Judy]

Just a quick though

Have you ever considered that he also feels the same way that you do about his quick arrivals! maybe hes dying to say what you are too but is nervous to bring it up! communication is key my advice would be to bring it up at a time where sex is not on neither of your brains. I'm talking like breakfast time or when your both chillin on the couch reading a book and get your point across without really saying the cold hard truth Like " hey hun do you think when we have sex it seems to end too soon" or "hey i wonder if theres a way we could make things last longer because i just love sex with you and i dont ever want it to end" Maybe you can think of something a lil better but those are just ideas... My ex also had the exact same problem but it was way worse hed barely get half burried and oops hehe it was all over already, half the time i dont even think i had even un hooked my bra and i was already putting it back on... there is a cream you can buy its a numbing cream you put it on the his penis and let it soak in for 10 mins and it works farely well i found.. But the condom idea is good as well i think that works too... By no means do i want anyone resorting to alchol on a regular basis but it does slow your central nervous system causing orgasms to take longer

Hope all works out

Jungle