[x.st.angel.x]

I also googled 'the little pink pill' i dont know if they exist here in Australia

[Daisie]

i'm in argentina so i doubt those exist here!!

[x.st.angel.x]

you might be lucky and be able to order some over the internet!

[Daisie]

I tried to order hersolutiongel but i couldn't... i guess there's no solution for me lol

[ItsASecret]

lol don't trust internet sites. There will never be an orgasm pill, only orgasm 'helping' ones. The process of an orgasm is so complex and has so many steps and pathways that there is physically no possible way to have the solution mixed up in a bottle. The creams will give you the tingles but only your mind can make you have the orgasm from there. Talk about it with your doctor, trust only those who have the professional background...not some average Joe selling them from their basement.

[x.st.angel.x]

Thats a good point you never know what they can sell you in those bottles! but does anyone actually know of any products that you can get from a doctor or pharmacy thats approved and ok to use?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

The Food and Drug Administration has not yet approved Viagra for women, but doctors can prescribe it for both sexes.

The purpose of Viagra is to increase the blood flow, this appears to work for the man because that's what he needs to remain "hard".... It's thought that a woman having a better blood flow may also assist in orgasms.

So speak to your Doctor.

But Orgasms are complexed... We know there are a variety of ways in which you can have them but at what stage you can, depends on your sensuality, sexuality and ability to have no fear, no shame and no inhibitions.

The later being the real key to it..

Alot of women "fear"..

They fear making any noise beyond a small moan.

They fear, reaching the ultimate orgasm because their partner may question how, why, have you done this before, did someone else teach you....

They fear, because having no inhibitions doesn't just mean being naked, but showing your entire body, right to his face , every part of your body without any fear, or feeling embarrased.

It's fear in my opinion that stops a woman from orgasming.

CW

[Neaky]

I wouldn't doubt if it was fear for me. I'm terrified to make a peep, terrified of just letting go. I try, i do.. I don't think i'm comfortable in myself, lol.

And as for the menthol, we got that "Yours & Mine: KY" and the "mine" (being the womens) is a menthol base but honestly, HE enjoys that more than i do. It feels super awkward for me, i dunno why. I'm so sick of not being able to orgasm with him. The only way i can is if i masturbate during sex (yes, that's what i said, lol). I desperately need that book you guys keep mentioning.

[ItsASecret]

Have you tried to masturbate to the point of knowing that you will orgasm then tell him to quickly replace your fingers with his (or his penis)? I have tried that, and honestly I know it will work but my guy always ends up asking "what should i do? how hard? how fast?" and by the time I even give a tiny motion to guide him the feeling is gone. Its a timing thing with me lol.

As for the menthol, I am not fond of the feeling either but some women really like it which is why they mass produce the stuff in the creams and lube. Check out the books, but google them first to see how they are. Some books are a total joke to me because of the techniques used (and you can google the techniques before buying the book), but there will definitely be several books that will fit your style...you just have to find them lol.

[WildChild]

If you believe something will work, it probably will.