[Guest]

Ok...how did she get you to agree to that....

Also..and I might be digging to deep here (no pun intended) Does she use her finger or .... Technique explaination please

Sorry it took long to respond, I have a demanding job....and I use my lunch break to hit the gym. I usually can post in the A.M. because I get to work early and dabble with emails and personal stuff before I start the workday.

Anyway - she really didn't have to get me to agree...she always makes comments about how she loves my and I know that's her thing on my body she finds sexiest. I always catch her looking, ha.

So one day, it was the weekend, she got up before I did, which is rare, and came back to bed later to try and get me up. She started giving me a lovely massage and her hands went lower and lower and she starting massaging around that area and it felt really good. So I told her to keep doing it. She was excited that I liked it and was like, "That feels good, really?" So since then I haven't been opposed to it and she explores how she wishes. If I don't like something I tell her. I'm not a big fan of putting fingers in there unless i'm really horny. She's done that a couple of times.

Otherwise, I'm more of a massage and pressure on it kinda person. Hope that helps.

[Guest]

Sorry it took long to respond, I have a demanding job....and I use my lunch break to hit the gym. I usually can post in the A.M. because I get to work early and dabble with emails and personal stuff before I start the workday.

Anyway - she really didn't have to get me to agree...she always makes comments about how she loves my and I know that's her thing on my body she finds sexiest. I always catch her looking, ha.

So one day, it was the weekend, she got up before I did, which is rare, and came back to bed later to try and get me up. She started giving me a lovely massage and her hands went lower and lower and she starting massaging around that area and it felt really good. So I told her to keep doing it. She was excited that I liked it and was like, "That feels good, really?" So since then I haven't been opposed to it and she explores how she wishes. If I don't like something I tell her. I'm not a big fan of putting fingers in there unless i'm really horny. She's done that a couple of times.

Otherwise, I'm more of a massage and pressure on it kinda person. Hope that helps.

Oh and I was sleeping naked so that definitely facilitated the experience and made it more natural. I sleep on my stomach.

[SERE]

Giving or recieving i'm cool with both...if my wife wanted to play with me bum i'm pretty sure i would be up for it....unless she all came charging in with like a monster strap on then all bets sre off...i'd be out of there...i think was good got the goose is good for the gander

[shweedart]

I tried bumlove again the other day (for the 2nd time)

The first time was uncomfortable and bleh...

the 2nd time, wasn't bad, wasn't good...the same as when you start having sex for the first time, not much feeling...its just 'there'

It didn't feel like I needed to make toilet either(unlike the first time)! which made it less of a worry and we had fun So I'm definately swayed to doing it more often now. Still a once in a blue moon treat though. Especially considering he prefers my baby maker to my butt





I'm mature...'bumlove'...'baby maker'...Ha

[Guest]

Just a question to the ladies..

Is it actually nice to have your anus licked or kissed? Or.. At least your lovers mouth being anywhere near there?

I mean I could understand why women would feel like its a saint to have a mans tounge near there anus, but, I'd like some opinions, because I would happily do it with my gf.

[Possibilities]

For sure, licking is probably feels better than anything else my man could ever dream up. If he is not willing to explore first with his tongue I don't let him put his penis or fingers anywhere near it. That goes for both vaginal and anal sex. You need to makes sure your GF is super turned on before you attempt this though, and it is always better if you begin by just teasing, that kind of plants the seed in her mind....by teasing but not taking the plunge immediately you will be way more successful at making her desire what is coming, and just lick a little bit focussing more on the area directly surrounding around the anus ..... don’t go all out like you would with oral sex....a little goes a long way when it comes to anal.

[WildChild]

Having had Hep 3, ate contaminated salad, thankfully that type leaves no long term damage, it's a miserable experience. I would steer clear or mouth to anus activity or use a dental dam (saran wrap will do it).

[Guest]

Hmm.. I'll defo have to talk to my gf about this.. Maybe I'll show her the replies on this thread.. ( I do that sometimes to show her shes not alone or for her to see what certain things are like.. like this for example)

Its a huge fetish off mine, I would just love to lick her butt, I've always had this desire, and now I'm starting to fantasize about it alot at random parts off the day.. Talking about this is making me fantasize.. lol

Keep the opinions coming

[Guest]

One thing I'm curious about though, is doing the same thing to HIM (just playing with it while doing other stuff). So I'll have to ask the guys here, have you had that done to you, and if so did you like it?

I did it once to DH neither of us got anything from it so havent done it since.

[GlitterAndStuds]

Yeah, it sounds like it's a different thing for everyone.

I did give it a shot with my boyfriend last night. It wasn't anything full fledged, but near the end, I just kind of pressed on it with my finger and I guess "tickled" it, for lack of a better word. He definitely had a good response to it, so I'll be trying it again every once in a while. Not something I would do every time, but still. I never really thought I would want to do that to anyone, for obvious reasons, but it's actually pretty cool.