[Ahryin]

LOL I just read your other post sorry....LOUD...lol oh gosh this is going to be a hoot of an adventure

[LanaBear]

As far as butt play, I really get in the mood for it sometimes. But you shouldn't do it dehydrated, even with lube ... I got a bruised sphincter from it recently :/ And that ruined even regular sex for like a week. Boo!

OUCH!!! Are you serious? Oh - I hope that never happens to me, but we lube it up (To the inventors of AstroGlide, THANK YOU!). But honestly, it hurts just thinking about it.

[Little]

It was PURPLE. But I had been sorta dehydrated for a while before it. Pointy poop is bad to have before anal sex ... and after! Seriously, it was purple in there and I couldn't tense my PC muscles at all.

[LanaBear]

UGH - oh girl, that is something I NEVER want to experience!

[ADS]

Dh and I both LOVE anal sex!! On both the giving end and receiving end for him and myself I bought him a new butt plug that I end up liking alot. I wore it to Walmart the other day and kept texting him about it. He couldn't get home from work quick enough to replace the plug with his penis!! I'll wear it around the house too. When we're in the shower we'll scrub each others back and oops, my finger slips into his butt. We don't have butt sex all the time, but (hee hee) it's awesome! I love the orgasms we get! One thing I like to do is have a vibrator for me and use it on my clit while he's in my butt, OMG! Or if we're having sex, I'll reach around and put a finger in his butt and he cums so hard! Love love love butt sex!!

[Guest]

It was PURPLE. But I had been sorta dehydrated for a while before it. Pointy poop is bad to have before anal sex ... and after! Seriously, it was purple in there and I couldn't tense my PC muscles at all.

LOL....TMI.

I wasn't aware that girls did number 2!

[MsLucy]

This may sound horrible but I am 33 and have recently hit my peak. All of a sudden I want to try everything and anthing (between two people). My problem is my partner is a pretty good size. Is there a paticular brand of lube I should get? Should I even go there?

[Miya]

MsLucy,

Astroglide (and lots of it) works wonders.

[SinisterUrge]

My problem is my partner is a pretty good size.

Thats not a problem, its a bonus.

Is there a paticular brand of lube I should get? Should I even go there?

Please be aware that in the realm of anal lubes nothing can hold a candle to the stuff the sell on websites for gay men.

Manglide® by Astroglide®
Astroglide Anal Shooters® (yes, its a real product. Its a one-use lube injector that gets the stuff inside your rectum instead of on top of it.)
Boy Butter H2O® (available in regular and desensitizing)
J*Lube®
Pjur water®
Eros water®
Gun Oil® (silicon lube, not condom-safe. Good for toys)
Eros Bodyglide®
Elbow Grease®

Bonus: Who wouldn't want a bottle of Manglide or Boy Butter in their bathroom medicine cabinet to confound and confuse snoopy house guests?

[Guest]

Thats not a problem, its a bonus.

Earlier in this thread a poster wrote:

"Or her partner is big enough to be a '70s porn star. Quite a few of my friends' girlfriends have told me that they won't let someone as big them back there. No amount of lube will work. They're just too big."

That indeed is what women 'tend' to say on forums and has been what I've also heard a women have to say about the subject. It often comes up in does size matter discussions and typically some women will make it a point to say small penises are easier to suck on and better for anal sex. They are wanting to compliment non large penises but I'm not so sure they realise that it comes off as saying in a round about way that bigger is better for vaginal and vaginal is what matters more to guys than whether women prefer it for anal. Women would be better off just not saying anything than beating around the bush (no pun intended) like that.