[mdraven380]

You just answered your own question.

Those guys are sweet and romantic for the sake of 'sealing the deal.' It's salesmanship. Once the 'deal is in the bag' they think there is no more reason for them to be sweet and romantic anymore.

This has happened to me quite often.

[LauraLiu]

Why do men have a wondering eye on any and almost every female that pass. Okay fine you seem a gorgeous girl fine, but why any and every girl?

[OGFL]

Why do men have a wondering eye on any and almost every female that pass. Okay fine you seem a gorgeous girl fine, but why any and every girl?

cause its hard to ignore hormone induced impulses( although ill freely admit its easy not to look when i already got a good looking woman).

[kailua]

Why is it that guys start off with a strong sex drive and then it lessens...then you find out that they are watching porn on the computer...and when you bring up, that you are going to chat with the kids to find out who goes on the porn sites, to have him confess and he states that it is probably a pop-up but really I know better!!!!

[LauraLiu]

cause its hard to ignore hormone induced impulses( although ill freely admit its easy not to look when i already got a good looking woman).

So to my understanding I am not good looking enough to get majority of the eye contact a guy makes rather than it going left and right.. =\.

[LauraLiu]

One thing I never understood about Men, is it because they are pigs and literally try to get with any piece of vagina they come across or what? Okay so I've been dating this guy and he's got pretty comfortable with me to where he invites me to hang out with him and the guys.. And they are a pretty good crowd of guys.. but its like when he leaves the room or one is alone with me .. they try to get with me. And should I bring this to the attention of the guy I am dating??

[LauraLiu]

This has happened to me quite often.

HAHA this reminds of this one guy i dated, pretty average man, complete gentleman, stable salary right? We dated about a good 6months.. he took me the nicest/fanciest places you'd go to for a romantic dinner, he took me to comedy shows, even a broadway.. we did a lot of incredible and new things.. SOOOO once we seal the deal in.. all we really did was sit around the house play video games and drink beer and pass out .. =\ and when i asked him what happened he literally told me, i got you now no reason to try to impress you.. At first i thought he was joking but no this guy was dead serious. I was so disappointed.

[Texinator]

So to my understanding I am not good looking enough to get majority of the eye contact a guy makes rather than it going left and right.. =\.

Like I said in another thread, I'm sure the guy that's with Miss Universe likes to look at other women.

Don't take it personally. It has nothing to do with their feelings towards you.

[Texinator]

Why is it that guys start off with a strong sex drive and then it lessens...then you find out that they are watching porn on the computer...

Could be a porn addiction, could be unhappiness in the bedroom, could be unhappiness in the relationship. You'll have to talk to him to get to the bottom of it.

[Texinator]

Whatever happened to getting to know someone before you jump in the sac?

On the bright side, you found out right at the beginning that he isn't worth your while and you probably saved yourself a disappointment down the road.