[Sarah928]

I would say to any guy worried about their penis size being too big - take your time and give lots of foreplay. If you do these 2 things well your girl will love it. For most women, once they get aroused enough they can handle almost any size man and will even come to love the feeling of a large penis. So, just pay attention to her needs and help her get comfortable before going in. And things will be fine!

[welp]

Hi,

I know this is ment for women but I don't know where else to turn to.

Every girl I meet, when it gets to the bedroom they are like OMG I think its the girth that sacres them most, has anyone got any ideas as to what I can do? Should I tell them in the first place? I get kinda embarresed when they say 'I'm sorry but I don't think I can have sex with you'.

Many thanks,

Johny.

Well, I think it partly has to do with the size of the woman. If this were not true then every woman on the face of the planet would prefer the same size penis down to the 1/16 of an inch. There would be absolutely no variation because all women would be the same size.

Each human body part comes in all sorts of sizes, shapes, and colors. Why would this be any different for penises and vaginas? You just need to find a woman more your size. Just like the Kama Sutra says, match the men with the larger penises with the women with larger vaginas and you'll have a happy match.

Good luck

[heatherh]

So you like big

What I am hearing here is you women do like a man with a bigger penis? I am 8" and 3.25" girth and my wife left and found a bigger man she never had a problem getting it in her mouth because she refused to do it

[gyrator53]

I think ultimately its a good problem to have. I may not be anything to write home about in the length department but am close to 150mm in girth. My wife freely admits it was one of the things that weighted in my favour (balancing my many, many faults) as a husband. For example she never has a problem coming without additional clit stimulation. However our first time together was a bit of a trial! In the end lots of oral (on her) got her well enough prepared and it was fine.

Of course it does mean that oral on me and anal with her receiving are pretty much out of the question. However, there are a great many other things you can do, and we do, all the time! :-)

[andigail6]

Girl, if it feels like your jaw is going to break, I KNOW how it feels!! I have to do jaw exercises afterwards to get everything back in joint. OUCH!!! It is BEAUTIFUL, but it IS huge!!

OMG... I thought I was the only one who had to do jaw exercises too

[C]

I find so many answers here so interesting. I never saw my husband's penis until the night of our honeymoon. I judged the man. The sexual hunger for my man. The part of me that wanted to explode when he touched me. I still do.

My husband would be considered medium size but to me he is all I could ever want in a man. And may I add many other women have wanted him in our life together. What he does with that sexual organ to satisfy me makes me juicy just thinking about it. He is my stud and I am the most blessed woman in the world. His tongue should be framed and his fingers that he keeps covered with rubber gloves while working in the hobby room make our love making heavenly. At night he puts Vaseline on them to keep them soft for pleasuring the tender insides of my open mouth of love that he loves playing with.

I read an article in Cosmo a while ago. It was a woman telling of things not to tell your best friend. I found it most interesting.

She said that she had lunch with a college friend. At lunch they were discussing their love life. Her dear friend told her of the new man she was dating. She was crazy about him but she told her laughing, you would not believe it but he only has this 2 inch knob for a pecker. She said the first time she saw him naked she just about laughed but couldn't as it would have hurt his feelings. She said she had to sit on top of him to get it to get inside her love pod but she sure did enjoy Joe if it wasn't for that.

A few years went by and she met this woman socially at a party. They talked and her husband came over. There her friend introduced her to her new husband. It was Joe. She said she talked to him but couldn't help but looking down at the place where his bulge should be. Her attractive friend had married Joe despite the fact that he was not that well endowed. She married the man for the man he was inside and his looks and his kindness. Everything else comes with time and love conquer all.

I had no sexual relations experience before marriage. At times I have regretted this and at times think I am the luckiest person in the world. I believe any woman can make any man large or small feel like a God. I believe it is up to the woman to make him big. Whether he is large and well endowed or not, her high sexuality and how she uses it is the key to happiness. Personally I love being his sex queen. Gets him hard every time.

[gyrator53]

One other thing to consider is to use "girl on top" positions where she has control over penetration until she is used to you. She can pull back if things get painful. The fact that she can do this rather than hoping an unfamiliar partner will do so quickly on request will help her relax which in turn make it less likely she will actually experience pain.

[heatherh]

I do think that it is good for t he woman to be able to control things when a man is that large. What happens thought if the girth is that large where a woman can not do anything with it or is that just impossible?

[metboogie]

Hi,

I know this is ment for women but I don't know where else to turn to.

Every girl I meet, when it gets to the bedroom they are like OMG I think its the girth that sacres them most, has anyone got any ideas as to what I can do? Should I tell them in the first place? I get kinda embarresed when they say 'I'm sorry but I don't think I can have sex with you'.

Many thanks,

Johny.

I know most men would love to have that problem, but I'm glad I don't. This reminds me of an episode from Sex and the City...don't ask why I watched (the things we do for women)...

Honestly, I would work on opening your lady up a bit - start with fingers, move on to dildo's, keep getting bigger until she is ready for you...good luck.

[gyrator53]

I do think that it is good for t he woman to be able to control things when a man is that large. What happens thought if the girth is that large where a woman can not do anything with it or is that just impossible?

I'm sure that almost all women can accommodate even the largest man given plenty of time, understanding and gentleness.