[darkone]

I have to go with the last two posts. If you work on the women the right way she will want to do anything and just start off slow. But be patient and keep trying and little by little after weeks she will be able to take more and more.

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I had no sexual relations experience before marriage. At times I have regretted this and at times think I am the luckiest person in the world. I believe any woman can make any man large or small feel like a God. I believe it is up to the woman to make him big. Whether he is large and well endowed or not, her high sexuality and how she uses it is the key to happiness. Personally I love being his sex queen. Gets him hard every time.

I just found it interesting how you explained this part of your marriage. I myself go back and forth with how I see sex in the scheme of things. Sometimes I think premaridal is wrong and other times I'm ok with one-night stand and insane orges or whatever comes up. Rape is definitely out of the question in case someone started thinking that. I too feel lucky with whom I enjoy life with. Maybe its my age that makes me still look at other women until I control myself. Somehow though, no matter how I view sex in and out of relationships, I can't imagine experience having any bearing because after all, if you're considering marriage without a laxed view of divorce, the vows always seem to guide you from person to person keeping you out of long-term relationships, don't they? She is my first and my last as far as I can see. We'll marry as soon as I escape college.

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One other thing to consider is to use "girl on top" positions where she has control over penetration until she is used to you. She can pull back if things get painful. The fact that she can do this rather than hoping an unfamiliar partner will do so quickly on request will help her relax which in turn make it less likely she will actually experience pain.

Indeed. Some women have painful organisms from what I understand. It just happens that way. Never heard of it on the male side so thus, seemingly inconsiderate penetration. Now something that I've never heard of a downside, other than unwanted pregnancy, is drunk sex. The pain is minimalized and the duration is more than doubled. The morning after can cause a walking disorder but pain pills are pretty easily prescribed to women for almost any reason at any age. Just ask. The doctor says "no" only 1 out of 20 times. I would imagine that the health aspect could be rendered with an antibiotic ointment. Maybe neosporin? The best thing about the process is unless sex only happens like every 10 years, the vagina will expand to meet requirements. It actually is supposed to expand like a balloon. Just not as easily at the canal. The fingers and dildo suggestion is basically the prepared operation for what I just described. I hope this helped Johnny.

Another discovery of mine: My penis is only 5 inches but its pretty big around. So in a respect, the hands really do match. I think for this reason, sex isn't too comfortable for my partner beyond a certain length of time and rough sex would be too painful. Some do like it rough though. Maybe you're still looking for that girl, John. I do believe length is not such an issue. Some women have explained in other forums that they orgasm better from a thicker penis rather than longer. Somewhere before this post, someone explained that pleasure was possible with a 2 in. penis and it is entirely possible.

Take it for what its worth. Trial and error contributes experience, which overtime develops wisdom.

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