[Melephant]

Bahahahahahahaaa, Mes, you're so funny, duck!
That's another thing actually, what happens if your man cums up there? Is it the same as when he comes in your vagina? Cos i really hate that, i have to wash like six times after sex lol. I'd imagine it's much more annoying and unpleasant, too.

[SarahBeth]

I have done anal, it was a very interesting and unique experience every time. I have both horror and good stories about it, but that doesn't matter. Just know you need to realize it will hurt, and a feeling that can't be compared to anything else. Just get him to be gentle and use a decent amount of lube, on your side seems to be the best if you have never done it, or haven't in a while for the sensitive affect.

[Melephant]

Wow, you look like me! Hehe, couldn't resist a little stupid joke, i apologize

Oooh, that is good though, i didn't even think about positions! Thankies!

[shweedart]

hmm see it didn't hurt me at all and the first time was so spontaneous we didn't use lube, just what was on the condom. That probably didn't help the fact it was a pleasant feeling...just poop feeling

[shweedart]

Just got a big ol' butt




I havn't, I've got a cute little tush

[Mes T]

Bahahahahahahaaa, Mes, you're so funny, duck!
That's another thing actually, what happens if your man cums up there? Is it the same as when he comes in your vagina? Cos i really hate that, i have to wash like six times after sex lol. I'd imagine it's much more annoying and unpleasant, too.

Hehe. I remember when I first got to college, I met this girl who was way more sexually experienced than me, and I loved listening to her stories. Anyway, on that subject, she said one day, a few hours after anal, she was walking about doing whatever, and suddenly she felt this big wet PLOPness in her pants! She thought that she had pooped herself, but it ended up just being the cum coming out.

One great way to solve this (and prevent a load of other problems) is to use a condom. I don't like condoms for vaginal sex, but for this it's great. No infections for the guy and no mess for you!

[Melephant]

Haha, sorted!

[perfectangel716]

Anal

I know there are a lot of posts on here about whether people should try it or what's the pleasure in it on here but no one asks specific questions really. My boyfriend decided to push the limit and try it out on me and as someone who's never thought anal sounded exciting (besides the idea of double penetration), the first time was ehhh...not bad but not good. The second time, was much better and now I'm obsessed with it but we still have only done it three times. He ended up moving across the country and I might be going soon so we're talkinga bout it tons now....but I had some questions.

People keep saying we should use condoms because of infections for the guys...what's your take on this? It makes sense but is it really bad if you don't? We don't like condoms and the few times we have we didn't even end up using lube and it was fine.

I suggested lube in the future because I'm scared of damage being done. How easy is it to hurt the sensitive areas there? Anyone have any experience with this? If we do it on a whim and don't happen to have lube is that a bad thing?

I keep hearing people talking about using enema and what not...is this just because it's uncomfortable for you or for safety/sanitation issues?

What is the experience of double penetration on both the guys and the girls part? Is it better to have the guy or the girl guide the dildo or either?

Again I had no problem with it besides the comfort part of it and slow going at first until I got used to it over about 3-5 minutes. And strangely I'm actually craving it now even though I don't quite find actual pleasure out of it yet...it's still a neutral/new feeling but maybe it's the cliche of it.

[alterview]

a guys view...

anal sex can be a lot of fun and a new dimension to your sex life. i enjoy it quite a bit (giving). i have been with a couple of women partners that have really enjoyed it too... to the point of having very strong orgasms from anal sex.

my gf and i have recently started enjoying anal play (on both sides). a good amount of lube and lots of 'practice'... like with fingers and smaller toys will definitely help before going for the whole deal. for us, the biggest turn on (i guess how good sex should be) is that the other is very turned on by it. i do enjoy it too (receiving as well as giving) but its mostly from how arroused she gets by giving.

also, it can be messy. be prepared but as others have suggested, a 'mess' can be avoided. luckily we havent had any issues. if you are getting into anal play then at least know your partner well enough that either of you wont have too big an issue if a 'mess' happens. its all suppose to be fun!

best of wishes- cheers!

[QueenGinger]

I tend to enjoy anal (and my man is quite large as well) but every one is different. I agree with lots of lube, I also find that it helps to relax to start w/ fingers first and then move on the bigger things lol. What I perfer to do is for my guy to fully insert his penis and let it rest for a moment until my body relaxes. The pooing after thing i've never experienced but if he cums in there sometimes you have the craps for a couple of days. (Sorry if I got too graphic)