[Swiftus]

This is an easy one to conquer.

Use your hand more at the end of your mouth.

The most sensitive part is about 1/2 way down the shaft on the "bottom" side. It should be recognizable. Really, you only need to get that far down with your mouth.

When you run out of breath, lick bottom to top on the under side of the shaft. (better for us this way).

Finally, ask him where HE wants to finish. If you feel a tad saucy, moan a little as he cums. We all know that you aren't getting any true pleasure at the time but it somehow heightens our arousal.

[broseph]

Ehh I dont like it but each to their own You have to learn to overcome your gag reflex though.

[ThexMrs]

I think that everything that I would have/could have said has been mentioned but to reitterate it one last time... Don't do anything that you aren't comfortable with or don't want to do. It's both of your sex lives.

[DomoChan]

thanks!
And to all those out there yes he does want the throwing up part included like a kind of dominant thing

[WildChild]

Keep in mind that you set the limits on this and that vomiting can damage your esophagus and teeth if it happens very often.

[dolphinlefty]

Ew. That sounds awful. My boyfriend has similar fantasies. Like sends me articles about how swallowing his cum could reduce the chances of breast cancer cause he knows I don't want to do it but he has a sexual fantasy about me doing that.

[Futureboy]

Personally I would decline the vom thing, but its up to you. If your going to go down this road I suggest you take antacid to reduce the physical damage to your body. Either that or two bottles of red wine on his favourite bedspread lol.

Or say you would really like to pee in his mouth and drink it down

On the swallowing come thing personally I don't think that is that difficult or wierd. You could 'pass' instead of swallow. or dribble it out your mouth and get him to rub it in your chest.

I have had sex on and off for 18 years and only one girl has ever swallowed and I am not entirly sure it was intentional. I am just greatful they will put it in their mouth. and yes I love going down.

More seriously as everyone on here says talk to you other half, respect yourself and he will respect you. You're not a porn star your a women. Sex is supposed be enjoyable for everyone involved.

[Guest]

He has been watching too much porn. PERIOD. I don't see the allure of degradation, which this is.

[DomoChan]

I know he looks at a lot of porn, cause he loved hentai before. But because he was a virgin when i 1st met him and then his 1st time was with me he's eased up on the porn. But his fantasy is something i really don't want to do

[Ashlee T.]

Then don't. Plain and simple. If he's not happy with this act unless you throw up, then if it were me I'd say "compromise or get nothing". If you do that, it will be a very traumatic experience for you......not to mention unhealthy.