[kira]

I had a boyfriend like that... Last I saw him he was laying on the floor of the hallway as I stepped over him to the door. A wall kind of got in the way of his face when I moved him out of my way. I don't take revenge I just do what is necessary to leave and nothing from suicide threats to getting physical is going to keep me from doing so.

[Ashlee T.]

I gotta agree with Kmonte...... good grief, an accident is one thing, but totally diregarding and disrespecting your "love"? Not happenin here.

Be prepared for further disrespecting and abuse of power....... would seem like a red flag to me.

[Futureboy]

On one level this is funny, an (brown) eye for an (brown) eye

On another it concerns me that you said stop and he didn't and that you exacted what you knew would be painful and possibly damaging in return. (ignorance & violation vs revenge & violation)

If this is womens first experiance of anal then no wonder not that many are interested in it.

Well he's your b!tch now! lol

[KMonte85]

"If you leave I'll kill myself"

Just try to be courteous and neat about it, please. No one likes cleaning that ish up... If you're going to do it, do it outside or something.

"I could kill you and know one would know it wasn't an accident".

Accidents happen. Don't think you're accident-proof either, my dear. Now get the %$#% out.


Probably doesn't work in a case where you're MARRIED to the guy... but I've gotten the "i'm going to kill myself" line before. In most cases, if they talk about it - they aren't going to actually do it.

an (brown) eye for an (brown) eye

LMAO!! ...That is all.

[WildChild]

Just try to be courteous and neat about it, please. No one likes cleaning that ish up... If you're going to do it, do it outside or something.

That is pretty much what I told him - do it in the shower, I don't want to lose the deposit. He was going to disembowel himself, high drama stuff.

[Texinator]

Coulda gotten him a book on Seppuku for Christmas.

[WildChild]

He already read it

[Texinator]

At least he's your ex. Nobody deserves to be treated like that.

[WildChild]

That was a long time ago....thankfully

[Tango]

...I told him to stop a couple of times and he didn't.

Whether you're in a serious relationship or not, that's rape. Not asking is bad enough, not stopping is ten thousand times worse. I agree that there might be something wrong there even though you were able to prove that you "wear the pants".