[StillLearnin]

HD and Millania - I think it's great that you are so concerned about what your SOs are doing. You really care about your relationships. My wife has always had the "don't ask don't tell" policy towards me. She just didn't want to know, because she never, until now, has wanted to deal with my sexual needs. The less she had to do for me the better.

So you go girls.

[Millania]

Aw thank you StillLearning ! its extremley important for me to please my man, I am sorry your wife is not similar to HD and I.
I shuddered at the thought of anl sex when past boyfriends would ask me to try it, but when I got married I said to myself, well he wants it(my husband was BEGGING for it) and if I dont give it to him, he may stray to find a woman that will! I always have that rule-ALWAYS do whatever it takes to please ur man, because what you WONT do another woman WILL do with no questions asked

[WildChild]

Millania, what do you do to ensure your own needs are met? That you are pleasured? What does he do for you that is commesurate with what you do for him, aside from his keeping the marriage vows he vollunteered for?

[Millania]

Wildchild-writting u a private message thx for your concern, we seem to be going through similar things

[Futureboy]

M

Really glad to hear your starting to get a plan. I think your SO should be very please he has someone so devoted to him.

Remember it nice to do things for him but this self improvement regime has to be for you. My feeling about boob jobs are on many threads but all I'll say on this is it has to be for you no one else.

Good luck

[Millania]

Futureboy-thx, yes I think I am a pretty darn good wife The self imprvmnt regimine is definitley for myself, to increase my own self confidence/self esteem, and in turn can help me feel sexier for my man. Yes I agree, a boob job should be done because the woman wants them for herself, not for anyone else. I dont think I would be able to ever get one because they are so darn expensive..thankfully I am a C cup now anyways so I think I am an ok size-thx for your reply

[Texinator]

UGH I know wat u mean, those girls are dam near perfect! I feel so disgusted in myself when I see all these PERFECT- gorgeous, not one stretch mark, perfect boobs, perfect feet, nice nails, hair done, I cant seem to find anything wrong with any of them porn girls, dam them lol

You should keep in mind that you're a 'real' woman whereas they are manufactured dolls. And when it comes to certain things, reality is better than fantasy.

[danceintx]

I have always had a problem with low self-esteem. I have been skinny, fat and in between like now. I wish I was skinnier, nut I am 5'4" and a size 6, I wear a 34 D. Not tooooo bad, my boyfriend treats me like a physical goddess. That sure, helps, but still all I can think about is plastic surgery. I don't talk about this much, but I used to have an eating disorder. I got down to a girls size 16. I got scared and got help. In counseling I remember telling him that even at my low weight it still didn't make me any happier with myself or in general. You loosing weight will probably do some good, but it won't cure that voice in your head always telling you something is wrong with you.

[Hopeless Dork]

You should keep in mind that you're a 'real' woman whereas they are manufactured dolls. And when it comes to certain things, reality is better than fantasy.

What is even more frustrating... is that some of the girls in porn are drop dead gorgeous and they STILLLLLL photoshop them!! So even 10's aren't "hot" enough for the standard of beauty in mens magazines, etc. They have to be non human perfection.

I find it just plain sickening. I don't care that these girls are prettier than me or whatever... but when they take out out every little imperfection I think it gives the less sensitive and well.. less intelligent (that don't understand its been altered) guys a false sense of what to expect out of the woman they are with.

Thats another reason I prefer sex porn to picture porn. In the movies they can't do that as good. So you will see a stretch mark, you will see the hair get messed up. You will see a jiggle here or dent of cellulite in the back of the thigh that make them REAL WOMEN.

In the pictures they are already so pretty then they airbrush them, adjust the lighting slap on a different nipple, what have you to make them just insanely flawless and impossible to live up to.

[danceintx]

Also, try googling this. Once, Jaime Lee Curtis did a photo shoot that was untouched. It showed her in practically under wear and no makeup. That is what she REALLY looks like, not what the magazines make her look like. I found it by googling Jaime Lee Curtis untouched photo. The pictures people see are not real. And when they are, that's why those women get paid millions, cause they are that rare.