[Texasred]

... " im very sensual i love to be touched.. DOnt all women?

Ahhh, that would be a "NO!"

[ItsASecret]

... " im very sensual i love to be touched.. DOnt all women?
Ahhh, that would be a "NO!"

I second that. Being touched is nice and all but I do not like to be smothered with the affection. It becomes too predictable, a touch here...felt it before, a kiss there...I know what it feels like.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Am I right in ascertaining you mean only sexually? There I comprehend sensual.. That would be a YES on my side of it, give and take off course...

But, if you are referring to "clingy", always wanting to be kissed, touched, told your beautiful, loved, then you may find that a person will view this as insecure and needy and too much.

CW

[stressed]

In a sensual way: always (not necessarily sexually related, but in a way that I can feel I'm more than a friend to him and in a way he'd only touch me).

In a cute-cuddling-sweet way: not always. It can even become irritating to receive 10 quick kisses, have my hand held for many minutes and be told I'm loved 10 times a day. It might sound harsh but it can become too much at times. My neck can hurt from just holding hands looking at each other and giving small kisses. Don't get me wrong, I'm a very romantic person, I just want both kinds of affection equally.

[Mortisha]

If he knows you want it so bad maybe that is why he is so stingy with the sex. He likes you to want him!!! Give him a taste of his own medicine. Maybe that will get him running!!

[Lizzy girl]

OK houston we have a BIG Prob with this!!

Ok ladies well to answer soe of they ?'s about do i need it all the time No. during sex yes i liek to be rubbed kissed licked ext. BUT of of sex i liek to hold hands and sit with each other sometimes. NOT all the time i just like to know he knows im there. Its liek he ignores em sometimes. I liek my space but come on every one likes to be noticed even for a split second ... OK heres the BOmb SHELL.. He noticed two girls from two diff places checking me out HARD CORE ladies WAY noticably Ridiculously HARD and one actualy talked to me for a bit!! so rewind..... last night we "ya" and we have this thing where if we wanna try something we say hey i wanna try this are you comfy with it yes or no. well he said no and said perhaps i need to find a Girlfriend to hook up with when i want to do things and when i want sex and he doesnt !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! whaaaaaaaaat!!!!!???? so back on today. He suggested i go after teh cute girl in the store eyeballing me staring and my chest.. i must admit i think women are beautiful. gorgeous creatures . I admire their beauty!! And thats where it ends. i appreciate a pretty man or woman just as much as teh next person. so joking around i said oh yeah id do it.. Just JOking with him I said she cute which she was no denying. but thats it i told him that. he thinks i should get a female partner for myself when i want sex and to play around. he wants nothing to do with us its only for me. he doesnt watch or participate its only for me he sad.. OK girls give me your info and advice . HEs CRAZY IS HE NOT? why would he want me to go BI?

[Mes T]

Heh. And what would he say if you said, "Actually I'm not sexually attracted to women, but if it's alright with you, I'll go back to that store and pick up a cute guy instead."

I'd be really hurt if my partner told me to do that, only because I'm against open relationships.

[Lizzy girl]

ya im a little hurt. not so much shocked because b4 i left him last year he wanted me to get a female partner so i would be sexually pleasured and not go to a man. I have a high sex drive and love to experiment WITH MY PARTNER..... only..... there was a time when i would of said sure but only out of curiosty adn thats my fault. but b4 i came back we promiswed eachother no pressure. he wwouldnt bring up him saying its ok to have a girl. and he keeps on doing it. here it is ........... because im open with sex with him i like everything toys, rough, ties (which he wont do) oral anal hands tongues . so when i asked to penetrate him liek ive done b4 he offerd to let me get a lady friend again. and again today. why is this. why cant he just please me the way i strive to please him. if he said give me oral ( for lack of vulgarity) i would in a heart beat i liek pleasing him . but if the table was turned he wouldnt. wtf GRRRRRRRRRRRRR i dont want va JJ i want him.

[Mes T]

I still don't get why he wants you to randomly go for a GIRL and not another guy. Ridiculous.

I dunno dear, it doesn't look like your respective drives are going to change, are you willing to have this difference the rest of your days together?

[Lizzy girl]

well idk i know im not going to go do another woman i dont cheat and permission or not its still cheating. so i dont know if i should just blow over that he gave me the option or ............idk just annoying he doesnt care if i find a female to make me happy. its liek he wanst to be repl;aced by a girl and only use me when he wants thats the vibe im getting do you to? i know this is going to sound liek im contradicting myself but im not its just a question...... because my husband doesnt liek kissing he does little flipping chicken peck you know the ones muah muah muah and thats it. or on the cheek. if i were to only have a female friend for kissing since i liek to kiss and he doesnt and WONT ive tried does that make me a lesbian and doing what he wanst me to do>? im confused