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I don't think her weight has anything to do with the size of her vagina, and I don't think that all african american men are well endowed. I am not sure why you are convinced your penis size is so small. My ex husband was 6'4" and weighed 300 pounds and his was around 4 inches, no lie. Any woman with a brain in her head and maturity under her belt knows that outward appearances have nothing to do with penis size, and would make no assumptions as to how big you should be. I think 6.5 inches is just fine and you have nothing to worry about.

u truly are a honest person, and by coming here and offering your input and help, helps us -the ones in doubt. thanks.

[cubanlink]

I don't really want to know the answer to this question, but here goes anyway:
How would you know this???

ill answer!....dude, my friends are cuban, were close.. we party together, for example - we talk about our girls experiences.

[stressed]

ill answer!....dude, my friends are cuban, were close.. we party together, for example - we talk about our girls experiences.

1) Have you actually seen their penises? Not that it matters, but it's one thing for a guy to tell what he did and how (and brag to his friends) and another to see it all for yourself.

2) Could it be that when you are having sex with your girlfriend and feel that she's not tight enough all the thoughts of her being with men with larger penises affect your own erection and mental state?

There is nothing wrong with your size and at your age there's probably nothing physically wrong with you, I think it's the mental aspect of this that you should concentrate on. Remember that your girlfriend is with you now, not somebody else, and that she enjoys sex with you, the way you are. Try different positions, find one that works better for you, at least until you feel more confident about yourself again, even suggest anal sex. Just don't overthink about your size or her ex'es, neither of this matters in a solid relationship.

We're here to answer or help you with any questions or worries you have.

[cubanlink]

1) Have you actually seen their penises? Not that it matters, but it's one thing for a guy to tell what he did and how (and brag to his friends) and another to see it all for yourself.

2) Could it be that when you are having sex with your girlfriend and feel that she's not tight enough all the thoughts of her being with men with larger penises affect your own erection and mental state?

There is nothing wrong with your size and at your age there's probably nothing physically wrong with you, I think it's the mental aspect of this that you should concentrate on. Remember that your girlfriend is with you now, not somebody else, and that she enjoys sex with you, the way you are. Try different positions, find one that works better for you, at least until you feel more confident about yourself again, even suggest anal sex. Just don't overthink about your size or her ex'es, neither of this matters in a solid relationship.

We're here to answer or help you with any questions or worries you have.

you are 1000000% right. i do, actually the first thing i think about when penetrating and during. thats why i sometimes when i dont feel it for like a sec. or two. i start worrying and there i get soft cuz i pull out and she tells me whats wrong!.. and its down hill from there.
i never do her on top because of my insecure issues.. because i dont think my penis is all the way in or some dumb excuse....
last night she told me to clear my head of anything that i think of when having sex, and we did it even uncomfortable and i was able to get hard and complete her on top... never done that. im taking it step by step.

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With her on top, she's in control.. She can feel you in the directions she wants to put her body in and it's a turn on for you, as she works her way... It's also makes or should make you feel like she's into you and it's probably the best position to build your confidence.

Your size is perfect for so many women, as Sinister stated, any larger and it's not as good...

It's more of a matter of finding the position for both of you that works the best, in achieving full feelings...

On Top seems to be a good one, so for now, suggest it and then start experimenting, side on, her on her stomach, etc.

CW