[WildChild]

Fair enough but let me counter with this. Men start to become like that when women stop putting out. You can't sell us a cadillac and turn into a Kia. Men r so simple, all u people gotta do is keep the sex going at a reasonable amount and treat us with respect and thats all ya need to do. I'll tell u right now i was still doin all the sweet boyfriend stuff until enough time passed and started to realize she doesnt even have sex with me. Men get resentful when sex is taken away i dont think women realize it. Its not just the horniness although that is a big part. It's also that it makes us feel unwanted that our girls dont wanna have sex with us especially when it didnt used ot b like that. If she cant do that one simple thing why should i b mr. wonderful where is her effort? I still do nice things and show some affection but not as much as i would and lately im just really resentful and it makes me not wanna do anything nice. Every time i do i still get no sex. Its not that im doin it just for the sex, but shouldnt io still b getting sex?

Nope, this may be your experience but in the wider world, it's very limited. I'm dealing with it and so are a lot of the women here. I'm horny pretty much all the time. I love sex. The man in my life, literally overnight stopped kissing - decided he didn't want to anymore. I thought he'd get over it, Not. Then it was foreplay. The sex got less and less frequent. It's now been over 3 months without. This isn't the first man I've dealt with this. It's far more common than you think. Men aren't very likely to tell other men that they are doing this.

My interest didn't cool in the slightest, if anything over time I wanted him more. There hasn't been a single thing he's wanted sexually that he hasn't gotten, with enthusiasm.

It's not women. It's not men. It's just some people. Whether it's some sort of control thing or deep seated responses from who knows what, it affects both genders.

[Fallen1]

Nope, this may be your experience but in the wider world, it's very limited. I'm dealing with it and so are a lot of the women here. I'm horny pretty much all the time. I love sex. The man in my life, literally overnight stopped kissing - decided he didn't want to anymore. I thought he'd get over it, Not. Then it was foreplay. The sex got less and less frequent. It's now been over 3 months without. This isn't the first man I've dealt with this. It's far more common than you think. Men aren't very likely to tell other men that they are doing this.

My interest didn't cool in the slightest, if anything over time I wanted him more. There hasn't been a single thing he's wanted sexually that he hasn't gotten, with enthusiasm.

It's not women. It's not men. It's just some people. Whether it's some sort of control thing or deep seated responses from who knows what, it affects both genders.

I was in this same situation WC in my last relationship. When we first started dating he was ready to go (and so was I) 2 and 3 times a day. The longer we were together he "cooled down". Finally got to where he acted as though it was killing him to do it a couple of days a week. Me, I still had the same desire/drive I had in the beginning. I still wanted it all the time.

As you said though it's just not men and it's just not women. It's just some people.

Dude I sympathies with you. My opinion on this after reading your posts is that it is a problem with her not you.

I do however hope (as you have stated) that you are just talking/sharing and your posts are not really your attitude and how you come across to your girlfriend about sex. When you refer to sex as "putting out" .......... well that makes it sound as though sex is just sex with you, a way to get off.

[stressed]

Oh please i never ever talk to her like that. Im just saying it like it is. You wanna believe that men have sex cuz theyre in love ur nuts. They have sex cuz they are horny. Evolution programs us to wanna spread our seed as much as possible. Since we dont wanna spread our seed we use protection now and we just try to have as much sex as possible. Women have a different evolotionary goal which im not gonna go into but its obviosuly different from a guys. I would never talk like this to her tho. I am very sweet with her. But when she goes nuts and throws fits at me calmly askig her why she never wants sex, wouldnt u b thinking this stuff if ur head if u were me? But please there is no guy that has sex out of love. Sure sex is great with soemone u love, its better than some random hookup but lets not fool ourselves here. We get horny and we get our rocks off. You think otherwise ur very naeve. my gf turns me on and i love her and then i wanna have sex with her. Take away the love part i still would wanna have sex with her. I like women im attracted to them and i have hormones and good sex drive cuz im young so i wanna do stuff with women. Thats how it is.

On a side note, how many girls date macho jerks and sleeep with them all the time? Lots! Im pretty sure they aren't connecting with them on emotionally sexual level. I think im just not doin it for her in the sack cuz of my PE. But maybe im wrong alot of u on here dont seem to think thats it cuz she is having orgasms. Or maybe she just doesnt need sex mor ethan oce a week and doesnt like to inititate. She always used to initiate so that cant b true tho so i dunno

I'll answer because you mentioned that my post was one of the ones that annoyed you. You say things as they are from your own perspective. As some have already said, many women want more sex than their men and they don't get it no matter how much they try. Sex is not only for men and it's not just men who want it. Just to clear this. And all this theory of evolution story, I can very easily throw it in a trash can based on multiple actual facts. We're neither fish nor monkeys. We actually have a brain and quite a number of feelings.

Sex is not the goal for every man, many men want a relationship first and then sex. It's just that now that you miss sex you have turned it into a huge factor. And that is reasonable. But if you continue like that you'll either lose your girl or cheat on her. Let's say there's a couple where the woman has cheated on her man. Do you think the man would still want to have sex with her if they still lived together if he didn't love her? That would be hypocritical and besides I highly doubt that he would.

You say you don't talk to your girlfriend like that, but this is what you believe. This can show on you whether you say it or not, or it can show indirectly in irrelevant discussions or by how you approach women in general. Maybe she even feels that during sex, we cannot know for sure. But your attitude here has been so constant throughout the posts that I do find it hard to believe that it doesn't show AT ALL off the computer as well.