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Unless you're a total neat/clean freak, why worry about it? IF we could see all the body oils etc that we leave on sheets we'd be washing them every day. It's all good clean fun and if no one else can see, does it matter? I see it as a sort of 'badge of honour' as evidence of the many hot times we've had.Comment
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I totally agree...BF and I almost always have sex in my bed at my apartment...if his cum is on my sheets, it is not a big deal plus I wash them every 7 to 10 days. If he pulls out to ejaculate on my breasts or belly, I usually use my panties to wipe up. Most of the time he finishes inside (vagina or mouth); however, when he finishes vaginally if he is spending the night we usually go to sleep and the cum drys wherever it is. If it was a quicky - I usually put my panties on and go about my business...Unless you're a total neat/clean freak, why worry about it? IF we could see all the body oils etc that we leave on sheets we'd be washing them every day. It's all good clean fun and if no one else can see, does it matter? I see it as a sort of 'badge of honour' as evidence of the many hot times we've had.Comment
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We let it dry and wash the sheets every week or so. No use wearing out the sheets. If a towel or shirt is handy and he's going to pull out, we will use it to catch anything that misses me, but other than that we don't really worry. Every so often we also use a deodorizer/cleaning spray on the mattress to take care of anything that might have soaked past the sheets.
So far, the bed hasn't developed any permanent wet spots nor any funky smells, and since he works nights and I work days we rarely have to argue over sleeping in the wet spot...
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Baby Wipes
I use baby wipes..the cheap ones are great! They clean all of it off your body and they smell good too! You wont feel all sticky either!
As for the sheets I wash them the next day!
One word love: Curiosity, you long for freedom, you long to do what you want to do because you want it, to act on selfish impulse. You want to see what it's like. One day you won't be able to resist! Live Your Dreams!Comment
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Bf is a neat-freak and hates anything being left on the sheets, up to the point where he ruins the mood every time after sex so there won't be any stains. If there are any he wants them replaced before bedtime. Had it been up to me, I wouldn't mind them there. Gross or not, I find it kind of sexy.
But since sex is a rare occasion, I normally change them weekly.Comment
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To Stressed: No wonder you're stressed! Sounds like you need a lover who is more frequent and more messy! Gosh, that towel thing some people do sounds really annoying. Doesn't it make it seem all clinical? I've learned not to buy black sheets, that's for sure; no matter where the most of it goes a little always gets on hands etc or "falls out" and I haven't been able to get that off the black sheets. Personally, when he finishes during intercourse I actually go the toilet and let it come out straight away; apparently passing water immediately after sex also prevents infections like thrush or cistitis so it's a good time to actually "go" go as well. Does anyone else do this? Or is the norm just to stay in bed and it kind of just leaks out? Or does it stay in until the next day for most people? One of those questions I've never been able to ask anyone IRL.Comment
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