I'm a 35 year old happily married male. Our home is close to the beach so relatives often stay with us so we are always very considerate and quiet even though no one would probably care.
On a recent Saturday afternoon my wife was at work and I was alone. I had checked out some amateur videos online and of course got a bit worked up. I went out onto our balcony which is not visible to anyone outside of it. As soon as I started I thought I heard a car outside but thought if it was someone they would knock.
. As I was relaxing afterward to pick up my drink and I heard a voice say, "Wow. That was interesting." It scared the(edit) outta me and I was immediately embarrassed to see it was my 32 year old married sister standing in the doorway. I began apologizing profusely and she said not to worry about it "it's a normal thing." She said she'd been there about 10 minutes.She stepped out the door with a kitchen towel and instead of handing it to me she immediately began to towel me off. It startled me and I snatched the towel from her and went inside.
After I had time to calm down we talked and she thought because they came down almost every weekend it would just be OK to walk in like usual. She apologized I tried to laugh it off but the damage was done. I was terribly embarrassed that somehow my wife would find out or my sister would embarrass me further by telling mutual friends. About an hour later she went into the guest room to change into her suit but before doing so she walked out completely naked and asked me if it would make me feel better if I watched her do the same thing so we would be even. I declined and tried to laugh it off telling her we were no longer teenagers when kids do it together.
Now I am so angry with her that I do not even want to see her again and each time my wife and I have sex I feel horribly guilty about not telling her what happened. I have a hole growing in the pit of my stomach which will probably turn into an ulcer. Am I taking this way too hard or has society progressed to the point that masturbating by both genders separately or together has just become another "thing to do?" Has anyone else ever been caught like this and what the heck did you do about it. I feel like (edit)
On a recent Saturday afternoon my wife was at work and I was alone. I had checked out some amateur videos online and of course got a bit worked up. I went out onto our balcony which is not visible to anyone outside of it. As soon as I started I thought I heard a car outside but thought if it was someone they would knock.
. As I was relaxing afterward to pick up my drink and I heard a voice say, "Wow. That was interesting." It scared the(edit) outta me and I was immediately embarrassed to see it was my 32 year old married sister standing in the doorway. I began apologizing profusely and she said not to worry about it "it's a normal thing." She said she'd been there about 10 minutes.She stepped out the door with a kitchen towel and instead of handing it to me she immediately began to towel me off. It startled me and I snatched the towel from her and went inside.
After I had time to calm down we talked and she thought because they came down almost every weekend it would just be OK to walk in like usual. She apologized I tried to laugh it off but the damage was done. I was terribly embarrassed that somehow my wife would find out or my sister would embarrass me further by telling mutual friends. About an hour later she went into the guest room to change into her suit but before doing so she walked out completely naked and asked me if it would make me feel better if I watched her do the same thing so we would be even. I declined and tried to laugh it off telling her we were no longer teenagers when kids do it together.
Now I am so angry with her that I do not even want to see her again and each time my wife and I have sex I feel horribly guilty about not telling her what happened. I have a hole growing in the pit of my stomach which will probably turn into an ulcer. Am I taking this way too hard or has society progressed to the point that masturbating by both genders separately or together has just become another "thing to do?" Has anyone else ever been caught like this and what the heck did you do about it. I feel like (edit)
If telling your wife would make you feel better, then by all means do, I seriously doubt that any wife would take offense hearing a story like that from their husbands. 
I don't have siblings so don't know what teenage brothers and sisters get up to, but I'm pretty sure that that sort of thing would be a big no-no for adults. Hmmmm.
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