[east98606]

OK ladies let me know what you think here. I can perform auto fellatio on myself. I have been doing it for years now. I think it would be fun to share with my wife but I am not sure. I wouldn't want to freak her out if she thought it was gross. Your thoughts on how to approach the discussion? I don't want her to think I am weird. Its just another form of masturbation that I happen to really enjoy!
Thanks.

[Fallen1]

Interesting situation/question.

An ex-boyfriend of mine once told me that he could do that (but only admitted to doing it once, yeah right ) when he was younger. He said as he got older he became less flexible. When he told me about it I didn't think much of it because I knew him and just how "crazy" he was - but that's just me.

Some girls may get quite freaked out about the situation and as you mentioned think it's gross. Then the thought process may continue and they may start to wonder that if you would do it to yourself you might do it to other guys and then start wondering if you were gay/bi etc. etc. However, there may be some that may be in awe over it. There are probably a lot of us who wish we could do that.

If you want to take the chance of telling her maybe you can approach it from an angle where you don't admit that you have right off. Just bring it up as if you were asking her what she thought about it and if she could would she do it. Depending on what her response is you can make your decision to proceed with telling her or keeping it to yourself.

You also might want to consider that if you tell her the possibility of her to start worrying if you prefer to do it yourself over her giving you oral could become an issue.

[Rainbow Rider]

WOW! You are super talented!! :-)

I once saw this on a video playing at a gay dance club. Imagine the shock of seeing that on a TV screen in mixed company! All the straight guys thought it was pretty cool, and some commented that they sure wished they could do it to themselves! Certainly turned me on watching it! However, it reminds me of male goats. Yes, goats! Did you know that male goats are horney little critters that do this to themselves regularly!? Quite the shocker to be walking around a friend's farm and seeing a male goat sucking himself off!!!

So all of that being said, I like the suggestion about testing the waters made by Fallen1. You might totally freak her out otherwise. Based on whatever her reaction is, you'll know whether or not to tell her.

[east98606]

Hey thanks. I like the idea of "testing the waters" first. And I have thought about the whole gay/bi questions too. Thats not fair....and just plain frustrating too! But a potential reallity...
Its just feeling like I am keeping some BIG seceret from her and I don't like that. And it would be kinda cool if we could work it into our fun together also :-)
Thanks!

[Explorer44]

I wonder if she will wonder if you will prefer yourself to her in that area...no way to know until you tell her, I guess. Just make sure you are very respectful of her reaction...

[Guest]

well you could tell her you saw a thing on the web about some celebrity who supposedly could do that to himself, and ask her what she thought. there was an old rumor that Marilyn Manson could do that, so I'll guess that if you search for something like "Did Marilyn Manson cut part of his waist so he could" you might find a few things.

[p3375]

my first thought on reading this is "Good thing all guys can't do that... it would mean the end of the human race!" l o l !

[StillLearnin]

Maybe she has a secret that she can suck on her own nipples. Could be interesting watching each other do that.

[Hopeless Dork]

I think its really not a good idea to surprise her with this... for her to open up the door to a 'hey honey look what i can do' demonstration.... the visual could be shocking as I'm sure you have to get yourself in quite the position to achieve this task.

Depends on your sexual relationship. If she doesn't like giivng you oral sex... this might be your downfall in getting it from her as she can think you can do it yourself.

If she has any insecurities sexually it can make her feel uncessary. Many women pride themselves in their ability to please their man in ways he can't do on his own and you'd be taking that away from her.

Id use the cross talk to gauge her reactions. How does she feel about masturbation in general? How does she feel about oral sex? Is she in anyway insecure of her ability to please you? Is she adventerous in bed?

If you guys have the kind of relationship where your open to watching porn together, maybe get one that has a self suck scene and when it plays say... gauge her reaction, if she's amused say... Hey I can totally do that!

[Millania]

ok u must be really long! sorry to sound disrespectful but you must have a HUGE "member" to be able to do that to yourself?! thats just amazing! imagine if us women can do this to ourselves..haha-that would be CRAZY in an awesome way
I probably wouldnt show the wife though, I think I would freak out if I saw my hubby doing this to himself LOL how long are you in inches if u dont mind me asking?