[LilahX]

Surely you know your wife well enough (I would hope!) to know what her reaction would be?

[east98606]

Surely you know your wife well enough (I would hope!) to know what her reaction would be?

Well.... I'm just not sure really. I mean maybe its that I might kinda find it a bit weird myself I suppose. I know that it is probably not something that is all that common to do. But I also know that is part of the draw for me. It does feel a bit forbidden....kinky etc. I was going to try to approach it this weekend but the timing just wasn't right.

[kygirl]

How long have you been married again?? I would think I might be a bit "hurt" if I'd been with someone for an extended period of time and they are just *now* telling me something like that. I don't think that means you shouldn't tell her, but I'd be sure to approach it gently. Not sure how I'd feel if my beau could do that? Lots of factors to consider I guess.

[east98606]

How long have you been married again?? I would think I might be a bit "hurt" if I'd been with someone for an extended period of time and they are just *now* telling me something like that. I don't think that means you shouldn't tell her, but I'd be sure to approach it gently. Not sure how I'd feel if my beau could do that? Lots of factors to consider I guess.

We have been married for 20+. I started doing this in my early 20's. Then I didn't for a long long time, and then just recently discovered that I can still do it. It is actually more enjoyable for me now than it used to be. *Shrug*.

[kygirl]

Maybe you could approach it that way?? Say that you used to do it a long time ago and got the random wild hair to try it again and realized you could still do it and see what she says??

[east98606]

Maybe you could approach it that way?? Say that you used to do it a long time ago and got the random wild hair to try it again and realized you could still do it and see what she says??

Bingo! I like that idea. Thanks for the idea. OK I am still nervous but I think I will try bringing it up that way this weekend! Thanks. :-)

[Greydog72]

now a different senario on your "self stimulation"


Does your wife give you oral? I'm assuming yes
Does your wife swallow? I'm assuming yes
Do you swallow? I'm assuming no
NOW, If you make your wife swallow...and she does like what she's sees.
Do you think she will require you to swallow too? I'm assuming yes
If you are going to play the "look what I can do" card, better get ready for the "what your are going to do" card.

Just laying that out there....
Go For It

[Fallen1]

now a different senario on your "self stimulation"


Does your wife give you oral? I'm assuming yes
Does your wife swallow? I'm assuming yes
Do you swallow? I'm assuming no
NOW, If you make your wife swallow...and she does like what she's sees.
Do you think she will require you to swallow too? I'm assuming yes
If you are going to play the "look what I can do" card, better get ready for the "what your are going to do" card.

Just laying that out there....
Go For It

If you don't swallow and she does could come "wait a minute, you don't but you expect/want me to"

[east98606]

If you don't swallow and she does could come "wait a minute, you don't but you expect/want me to"

Well I told myself I wouldn't swallow.... but I lied to myself and did. So I'm covered there! LOL

[emptypea2001]

I'm a man and I could do this when I was in high school. I'm not huge (just over 7") and could only get the head in, but I must say the feeling was other-worldly and I would still be doing it if I had that same flexibility. I've never told my wife but I may sometime because we talk about masturbation quite a bit.
I would go with the earlier advice of making it come up in conversation and gauge her reaction - or tell her this was something you tried when you were younger. If she is intrigued, she will probably ask to see you do it. If she's grossed out, you will know immediately. Don't worry about the honesty part, I'm sure there are a lot of things she's done (and probably still does) that she hasn't told you either.