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  • Jex
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    • Jun 2010
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    This is really wierd finding this thread as my boyfriend asked me the 'if you could would you' question just today, admitidly I said yes because i don't see it being much different from pleasuring yourself with your hands, apart from a further advantage. My boyfriend also said he would do it to himself if he could to, i wasn't freaked out by this but I might have a different reaction if i walked in on him doing it one day!
    I think that the idea of you prefering to do it yourself rather than her doing it for you is bound to come up, this would probably be upsetting, this would make me angry. But at the same time some women including myself like to watch men please themselves for a while before I take over, so your wife may be one of these women.
    Maybe just throw the idea at her, if she has a good sence of humour she might even laugh about it and you will get the 'Really?! Show me?!' excitment factor
    Good Luck

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    Last edited by Jex; 07-10-2010, 01:27 PM.

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