[priyakr]

Hello everyone,

I am priya, I am new here I was searching about the oralsex on net so I came to know about this site and I found it really helpful so here is my first problem.

My bf and me both are into oral sex but the thing is he likes being more dirty in it. He asks me if he can cum on my face or insists me to swallow his .... u know. I have done it few times but I still don't like it much like he does... but he get really aroused by doing that.

My question is - Is swallowing cum a bad thing? Does it cause any harm to health? Will it make me pregnant?

My bf says it has lots of proteins in it but the taste is yuk......

Please tell me what should I do...
and If I want to convince my bf to not to do this then how can I do that without hurting his feelings

Regards
Priya

[LanaBear]

No - it's not a bad thing.

No - it can't harm your health.

No - you can't get pregnant from it.

BUT, don't do it if you don't want to. Ignore your bf and his protein comment, that doesn't even factor into it.

YOU make the decision if you want to swallow or not and nobody should be insisting you do it if you don't want to, including your boyfriend.

[LaurieX]

most girls dont swallow, and prefer to spit if a lad cums in their mouth, i personally dont mind swallowing, its much tidyer, but i dont really mind the taste either
Its mega salty and apparently it depends on what they eat, like if theyr a vegitarien its supposed to taster sweeter, dunno if thats true though

anyway back to the point,
Its up to you if you want to swallow or not, its for your pleasure as much as his, make a deal with him, youl swallow if he does something special you want from him
xox

[MissMeSha810]

Watch What He Eats! LOL

Hey sweets. I agree w Lanabear in all her answers to your questions. As for me and my husband, I am a swallower! But I do it because I like doing it and depending on what my husband eats can have an effect on the taste. Eating sweets or fruits MAY have an effect on the taste, but if you're not into it, you have the option to spit it out or not do it at all. Whatever you do, it has to be as good for you as it is for him.

[p3375]

Yep yep - like above posters said.

bottom line - it's your choice. When a lover starts pushin you into things you have feelings against, is time to re-eval relationship.
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[erobins]

The guy I'm with right now is keen on this as well. Not gonna lie though I'm personally disgusted by the idea (i'm not against girls who don't mind it, to each her own :] and props to you if you can handle it) and I just tell him you cum in my mouth that's the end of oral sex. He has yet to do it. I actually had to tell him that I wasn't comfortable at all doing it and he still says he'll do it "eventually" but he has yet to even try, which is nice.

But I agree that if you're being pushed maybe it's time to re-think things or at least talk about it...

[rcoreyus]

Does he do all sorts of things for you in bed?

[maverick]

This sounds more like dominance to me than mutual enjoyment or love. Some women don't mind swallowing, others gag. If this is something that you want to do, I've been told that getting him near the back of your throat when he ejaculates can help to bypass the taste buds. Also getting him to change his diet may influence the taste of his semen. (Pineapple juice is supposed to help.)

But bottom line, if he is pushing you to do things you don't want to do like swallowing and "facials", it may be better for you to get out of this relationship before it turns (more) abusive.

[Millania]

maybe work it out with him so you only swallow on certain days, then on other days you can go spit it out..I dont always swallow, I only do when I am feeling extra frisky and I can tell the H loves it because he has a big grin on his face, never do anything you dont want to do...but if u do want to please your man, but dont want to swallow all the time, then maybe do it once in a while, at least he will see you are still wiling to try to please him..talk to him to! tell him that u dont mind swallowing once in a while but there are other days where you wont swallow, if he loves u he wont mind if u go spit it out..
for example if I have a tummy ache and I want to give him a bj, Ijust wont swallow..he doesnt care! either way! hes getting a BJ! and the finale shouldnt be a problem whether u swallow or not..

[Hopeless Dork]

There are no ill side effects to swallowing as lana pointed out, but you should definitly not do what you don't want to do.

Sometimes something you say NO NO NO to... will turn into an obsession and he'll make a bigger deal out of it than it really is just because he's unhappy about being denied.

I do feel like a lot of guys get the raw deal with girls spitting and saying 'uh uh u better not put that icky stuff in my mouth'! them running from the room with a disgusted look on their face spewing in the sink... what an ego blow :P

If a friend told me when her boyfriend goes down on her he tells her not to get so wet when she comes or he wont do it again, if he told her the taste of her juices made him gag and made the ick face after every time he did and ran to the bathroom for scope, spitting and quivering in disgust... I'd tell her she needs to find someone else that can love your body a little better than that.

But its more socially acceptable for women to be grossed out by man juices, when it the actual at least its one clean shot in the end and not sopping up oozing wetness the entire time like they do with us.

But if a guy makes you feel like its something you HAVE TO DO, what a turn off. No one wants to feel like they are performing a service, all sexual acts that are done to please the other partner are a gift, they should be recieved as such and never demanded.

If one does not feel comfortable doing it, they should not. It will only breed resentment and dislike for the act even more.

Me personally the thought of oral sex on a guy was enough to make my stomach turn, the thought of him coming in my mouth and ick swallowing it would make me all out nauseated. When guys I dated would start pushing my head that way it would make me feel used and I didn't want to do it.

But after spending some time getting in touch with own sexuality I began to see the act of giving oral as a turn on, and to think of a mans orgasm, ejaculate, as the results of the pleasure he's received, something desirable and it changed my thoughts on it.

When I got with my boyfriend he never pushed for oral, I just was naturally wanting to explore it and discovered I loved pleasing him that way. It is a turn on for me to play with his penis (its beautiful) and I get off on making him feel that good. Plus its a huge ego boots to have all his attention on me and to be able to be in control of all the action.

Swallowing just was doing what came natural to me and since my boyfriend has a fairly clean diet... it does not come off strong , its no whipcream desert topping, at all... but its a fairly neatural scent and taste and texture and I am so excited in his moment of release that I barely pay attention to it. Its cleaner, its in your mouth less long than holding it swishing it around while you find a place to spit it.

For me its an aquired taste, I've gotten so use to the my bfs semen that I rather enjoy that part of our oral sex experience, I look forward to the feeling of it.