[stressed]

Question though - it is reasonable for someone to leave a relationship if the aren't getting what they want sexually?

I'd say it is. Otherwise we'd have many cases of a homosexual and heterosexual partner being married.

Yet, not getting 1 or 2 out of 10 sexual wishes isn't exactly a reasonable reason to leave.

[rcoreyus]

I guess it depends on how important those 1 or 2 are to you. I think its best to try to figure out if you are sexually compatible fairly early in a relationship to avoid this sort of issue.

I'd say it is. Otherwise we'd have many cases of a homosexual and heterosexual partner being married.

Yet, not getting 1 or 2 out of 10 sexual wishes isn't exactly a reasonable reason to leave.

[Holiday1021]

If doing something for your partner really bothers you, like feeling fear, anxiety, or stress. It's not ok, ever.

Doesn't matter if it's 1 wish out of 10 that you don't follow or any of that . The world isn't black and white, it's made up of darker and brighter shades of gray, always has been.

If your partner is asking for something, try it a little. I'm not saying to go and schedule a bukkake session. But think of it like the first time you went to the deep end of a pool. Little by little you worked your way to that side of the pool. Maybe not in one day, but eventually you got to a point where you decided;

"Either it works for me, or it doesn't."

If you don't like it then tell your bf it's not for you. Have a long talk about it, find out where your boundaries are and ask him to respect those boundaries.

If you really hate it, but you do it for him - you won't be happy. And if he is really a man, and he discovers this, he won't be happy either.

In the long run you'll just do more harm than good.

Just about every man likes a girl to swallow, it keeps the intensity up, the feeling is very strong and life changing lol. It's a big turn on. But not every girl does it, or likes to do it.

That's life.

[tattoo artists wife]

i know they way you feel

Hello everyone,

I am priya, I am new here I was searching about the oralsex on net so I came to know about this site and I found it really helpful so here is my first problem.

My bf and me both are into oral sex but the thing is he likes being more dirty in it. He asks me if he can cum on my face or insists me to swallow his .... u know. I have done it few times but I still don't like it much like he does... but he get really aroused by doing that.

My question is - Is swallowing cum a bad thing? Does it cause any harm to health? Will it make me pregnant?

My bf says it has lots of proteins in it but the taste is yuk......

Please tell me what should I do...
and If I want to convince my bf to not to do this then how can I do that without hurting his feelings

Regards
Priya

First of all its not bad to swallow cum and it doesnt taste good but you should tell him to just cum in your mouth and then swallow it cause i have done that also. And it doesnt get you pregnant either. And if you want to stiop tell him to use his hand.

[grrrr]

I agree with everyone on here. It's your choice. Don't feel pressured to do something that you're not comfortable with.

[purplelicious]

I too have to agree with all the above. I personally like to swallow, but for some reason sometimes I do gag. So when this happens I don't Stop I just simply have him cum on my face and breast, I even rub it all over me which he loves very much too. I do that so he knows I don't hate it. Every once in a while you have to try something different. If you don't like it and want to learn to like it take your time on it. Swallow once in a while, and then try other ways, start with the oral sex then have intercourse. But don't feel like you are forced to swallow, that is simply wrong. I had a friend who hated it, then she asked me if I did it? I told her yes, it's great to swallow it's not that bad. I guess her husband was asking her to swallow because a few months later she asked how could I do that, she can't stand it. once again I told her it's not that bad, I didn't just do it and liked it! I had to start learning slowly. So that was 2 years ago, on this day she loves to swallow, she says it took her too long but now doesn't mind it at all.
So do what is best for you. You are the one who makes that decision..it's your body, your mouth...