Ouch this is even harder than I thought.
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Not giving us much to go on, unless I'm missing something.
What are you talking about?
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Will let you in on the latest developments at 10:00 when I am home.Comment
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It's all for a good cause, isn't it?
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Are you and the significant other having sex? 3 days with no orgasm or 3 days with just not masturbation?Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.Comment
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days no orgasm for me, she has it that I will not orgasm for 14 days.Comment
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I'm pretty sure the agreement I had to make with my wife to stay together is my fault and I deserve it. Her/belt= SoreLast edited by Mark1973; 03-19-2010, 12:36 AM.Comment
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WOW.....
Both of you need some major counseling. You have issues with the masturbation thing but she has issues with trying to control your behavior by instisting that you not have an orgasm for 14 days???? This is only going to create resentment and take you further apart.....
Why don't you be adults and come up with an agreement that respects and shows love and understanding instead of punishment?
You need to show her this thread.
How about you agree not to masturbate ( which obviously you have agreed to reluctantly to save your marriage) Start LOVING each other. Kiss, hold hands, caress, massage, snuggle on the couch ... create intimacy. Maybe stop short of sex for a few days, but you all need to be taking care of each other's needs instead of denying them!
Get to a marriage/sex counselor ASAP!!!Comment
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I don't like to sound of this Mark. You are an adult and make your own choices but this sounds just plain vindictive. Of course you made an agreement and how you handle this is up to you but counseling may not be a bad idea - unless this holds some level of apppeal?Comment
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This is REALLY sad, and rather pathetic! You guys are heading for a downfall for sure, if you continue with this sort of dysfuntionality. So many issues, on so many levels. How sad.
What Linda46 said, for sure!Comment
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